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I’m so scared I’ll never find love again why is dating so hard
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Anonymous 13w

Because you’re in your head, there will always be someone you can love

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I’m talking romantic not like normal love

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Like I had a failed date today. Did I like him that way mo but still

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

The guy I do really like I can’t have so I have to find someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Then don’t stress it girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Well I am going to stress it it’s continuous dares with people I don’t feel a spark with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Then take your time to find the guy that does

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Well I don’t have the damn patience it’s been six months since I was with someone in a relationship of sorts

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Do you really want to be in one right now?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

But with the right guy ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Well ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

What’s you’re right guy then

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

So much my standards were in hell because of my past relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Then make new ones

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Let’s hear them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I have made new ones

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I’ll send them soon

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

But for a quick fix I want love like Marie and Captain Von Trap even though that’s so unrealistic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Someone older yet falls for you fast,

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Yeah but also values and such and actually having butterflies again I haven’t felt butterflies in a long ass time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Actually that’s false I have but never for someone who lasts

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Fair enough, you’re looking for that honeymoon phase that doesn’t stop

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

No because it’s important to have the serious phase where you can discuss issues and create solutions and discuss uncomfortable topics but I would like it at the beginning

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Of course, but the feelings from that stage

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Have you ever met a guy who seems like that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Yes and then he did horrible things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Oh..I’m sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

It wasn’t pretty to me and to someone else it would possibly mentally deteriorate them but it was nice while the good parts lasted

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I guess, but that’s still not good in the long run

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Well yes it wasn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

And that was the last relationship?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

No that was my only official relationship like long term official

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

When was that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Three years ago

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

And you’ve been trying since then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

What’s the closest you’ve come

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

A month with someone with horrible communication

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Gotcha…can I ask what your standards are then?

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