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Confessions 17h
May be a hot take, but I’m never dating a woman I don’t 100% adore. You all get into relationships with people you don’t even like and wonder why you hate them 6 months later😭
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Anonymous 17h

Some people don’t date because they actually like the person but because they just want to say they’re in a relationship😭

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Anonymous 17h

I don’t get it when people describe their partners like “she’s annoying 😂” / “he’s kinda ugly” etc it’s like… either you two are simply Not compatible, or you’re just negging them on purpose cause you’re insecure and wanna take them down a peg. either way the relationship is bout to crash & burn

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Anonymous 16h

Thats crazy society has made you feel like this is hot take. I don’t understand the culture of relationship relationships for “fun” like why would I want a relationship We both know is going nowhere????

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Anonymous 16h

this isnt even close to a hot take wtf 😭 this should be the standard

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Anonymous 16h

This is how it should be💕✨

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Anonymous 13h

Even worse- THEY MARRY THEM!

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Anonymous 12h

I’m literally not getting in a relationship with anyone again unless it’s a man willing to treat loving me like it’s his job

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Anonymous 14h

i’m crying this is so fucking funny

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Anonymous 14h

Everybody here is like people are so lust filled so they date shitty people, bruh, people are fucking lonely. They date shitty people cuz they don’t wanna go home to an empty house and microwave enchiladas for like the 3rd time this week, while they endlessly scroll for something to watch on Netflix. I agree don’t date shitty people, but don’t for a second discount why they’re in a relationship, it’s hard out there.

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Anonymous 17h

Dating is how you know if you like someone. You’re just afraid of rejection

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

or because they just wanna smash but they’re not emotionally mature enough to distinguish between lust, limerence & love

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

Welcome to the internet smh

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 13h

If you have good friends you can feel a lot less lonely with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Still, I feel like there’s an expectation that success and money buys isolation and space. The better you do the bigger a house you buy, the less you take public transportation, the more you don’t live near your neighbors. It’s fascinating to see how the culture of success drives people to isolate themselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 12h

tea same

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12h

like im so sick of nonchalant men

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 11h

same girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 11h

Ehh, have you seen how good most people are at their jobs? Find somebody who’s passionate about you the way an autistic kid looks at trains (it’s me I’m the kid 😍 🚂🛤️)

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10h

“Loneliness” and solitude will always be better than a terrible relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10h

you say that as if this comment thread isn’t also full of lonely single people who are, at this very moment, voluntarily choosing an empty house and microwave enchiladas over a mutually-unfulfilling relationship with someone who gets on our nerves. I don’t think anyone really needs “people are lonely” explained to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

I think the point becomes, that you too COULD be in an unhappy relationship and frankly you’re making the smart choice not to, but that doesn’t always mean everyone makes the same decision for the same reasons. Some people just can’t handle being single, despite the best or worst reasons.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10h

Yes but they doesn’t make it right. People need to learn how to be okay with being single.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10h

okay, fair ‘nough. I mean, my own trauma conditioned me to prefer solitude, so I guess it’d be naive to overlook the reality that other people’s trauma could have the inverse effect

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10h

(and fwiw, I wanna clarify that I def don’t think every unpleasant or unhealthy relationship is the result of someone making a bad decision / settling for a partner who they don’t really like as a person. most often we just gradually get fed up with a side of the other person that we weren’t privy to at first)

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