Anonymous #2 6d

According to my therapist it’s sociopathic tendencies to use as a coping mechanism

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Little bit of both. Rn it’s the same 4 guys who I rotate, but every now and then I’ll throw in an extra one night stand

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Anonymous #4 6d

No, I’m not okay at all. He doesn’t know, I’m positive of that, I sometimes think he suspects but he doesn’t know. Maybe I enjoy the potential pain idk. I feel like I keep my boyfriend around to prevent the other guys from getting too close

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Anonymous OP 6d

Tell him and watch his reaction and gauge yours, if you enjoy the way he breaks down, you do enjoy causing pain of knowing what you did to someone. I highly doubt that, people who don’t want people around don’t keep a person around and their friends and then fuck their friends to keep people away.

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Anonymous #4 6d

I’m not going to tell him. I’d rather not see the reaction from that. I really don’t think he’s a violent man but people can be unpredictable in situations like these. Been there, done that, not risking it again.

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Anonymous OP 6d

Not see it but you want it, you want the reaction without the consequences; you want to know what it does without the backlash, you are weak. Therefore you do care you don’t want to hurt him in your presence, you have some semblance of self preservation because like you said people are unpredictable.

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Anonymous #4 6d

I really don’t need to be psychoanalyzed by a stranger.

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Anonymous OP 6d

Have no desire to psychoanalyze you not worth the energy, I just gave my opinion. You put your business up on here, and I didn’t call you a psychopath #2 did, to which you said it sociopathic tendencies assessed by your therapist.

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Anonymous #4 6d

Psychoanalyze does not mean you’re calling me a psychopath lol. It’s just means you over analyze every little thing you know about me to figure out some deeper meaning. It has nothing to do with calling someone a psychopath lol, it derives from the Greek work psycho for soul/mind. I know you didn’t call me a psychopath.

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Anonymous OP 6d

I very much know psychoanalyze has nothing to do with being directly being called a psychopath but I didn’t psychoanalyze you #2 did cause they came to that conclusion immediately. I don’t think you are neither, I think you don’t want consequences to your actions. You don’t think he knows but you sometimes think he suspects but you aren’t going to tell him. You aren’t either, just a pos.

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Anonymous #4 6d

You’re literally still psychoanalyzing me lol. I’m a pos but you’re severely non-self aware

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Anonymous #5 6d

I’ve been considering breaking up recently, but I don’t because I love having a consistent person around. I sleep with his best friend for three reasons, one is that he’s not, the second is that he’s easy, and the third is that he’s so terrified of losing his friendship that he never talks about our sex life. I can’t stand how men always blab about their sex lives and talk about women like conquests or objects, the fact that I know he won’t is great

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Anonymous OP 6d

***hot. I meant to say he’s hot. Not “he’s not” lol

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Anonymous OP 6d

i mean, when you get found out, because you will regardless of how careful you are, i doubt you'll have an easy time finding anything consistent in the area you are. because you're either going to slip up, or his friend is going to spill because of guilt. because based on how you described him, he's already feeling guilty or, yknow, ur bf will find out via std if you've contracted one and given it to him. or you stopped having sex with him i'd suggest speeding up the breakup process but whatev

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Anonymous #5 6d

I use condoms so I won’t get any STDs. You’re right his friend could slip up, I’m getting nervous about that after how he acted today.

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Anonymous #5 6d

I mean I’m ngl, I seriously am thinking about breaking up with him. I don’t want to but I probably will

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Anonymous OP 6d

you can still get sti's like herpes, genital warts, syphilis and mpox cause that's spread through skin-to-skin

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Anonymous #5 6d

Okay well luckily for me I haven’t and I’d never fuck anyone who has a weird skin condition

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Anonymous OP 6d

they aren't always visible brah, and whoever you sleep with probably won't tell you. but sure

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Anonymous #5 6d

Okay well regardless, luckily I haven’t gotten any.

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