Anonymous #2 1d

You don’t even fucking know what I did tho

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Anonymous OP 1d

You're saying you don't deserve it then?

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Anonymous #2 1d

I think my boyfriend has a tendency to overreact. And I think it’s weird for you to pass judgement when you don’t know what I did

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Anonymous OP 1d

You're avoiding the question, you definitely deserve it

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Anonymous #2 1d

I’m not avoiding the question. I literally answered your question. I said my bf overreacts

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Anonymous OP 1d

What did you do

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Anonymous #2 1d

A big group of us went to Vegas for Labor Day and I married his best friend.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Overreacts my ass

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Anonymous #2 1d

He does overreact! That’s not a lie

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Anonymous OP 1d

Bih I promise you, he gonna make sure you know that he don’t mess with you at all anymore. Bye bye from his life inna instant

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Anonymous OP 1d

You’re dumb as fuck and you and his “best friend” are shitty.

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Anonymous #3 1d

I’m trying to make it to where he never finds out

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Anonymous #4 1d

Why’d you put best friend in quotes? They are 100% best friends

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Anonymous OP 1d

Because a best friend wouldn’t marry his best friend’s girlfriend. You’re both pathetic pieces of shit

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Anonymous #4 1d

Best friends ≠ good friend

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Anonymous #4 1d

My brotha you is 10000% bros “best friend” ain’t his mans. He just a hoe ass dude. And this girl, I can’t even say what I wanna say fr. She don’t deserve shit but being left alone to rot

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Anonymous OP 1d

No shit. And obviously girlfriend ≠ good partner.

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Anonymous #4 1d

I never claimed to be a good partner

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Anonymous OP 1d

Bih it’s supposed to be a given. We are so fucked as a society

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Anonymous #5 1d

If it was fake married idt she’d be so ashamed of it

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Anonymous #4 1d

I would never even pretend to marry my boyfriend’s best friend.

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Anonymous #5 1d

As far as I can tell 24 hour Vegas chapels are legally binding

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Anonymous #4 1d

!!!!!!!!!!!

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Anonymous OP 1d

Next important question, How does one find herself in that position?

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Anonymous #5 1d

I weirdly appreciate these questions for some reason We were super drunk/high and it was like 2am and I happened to be in a cute white sparkly dress and some random old lady thought it was a wedding dress and that we’d just gotten married. As a joke he was all like “thanks isn’t she gorgeous” and he kissed my cheek and then I started laughing hysterically bc I thought it was the funniest thing in the world. So he suggested we take the joke up a notch and go to the chapel across the street

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Anonymous OP 1d

How come the best friend was there but not the bf?

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Anonymous #5 1d

Tbh I don’t entirely remember. I think like an hour earlier I had realized my bf was missing and not responding to my texts and I got really sad so his friend offered to pay for me to play slot machines to cheer me up and I think as that went on we just wandered farther and farther from the group without meaning to

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Anonymous OP 1d

Okay girl I’m ngl, that’s kinda sketch. Did you ever find out where your bf went? I’m not defending your actions btw

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Anonymous OP 1d

Definitely a peculiar situation, and you’re definitely going to have to figure some stuff out. If you’re legally married now you could probably look into an annulment. But this sounds like a pretty serious situation that might be a reason to reevaluate both your relationships and maybe your lifestyle if that’s something you do often. Not saying never drinking or stuff like that again but this sounds like it could have been avoided with a little more awareness. Please be safe & get it sorted out

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Anonymous #6 1d

No. He said the next day that he didn’t remember

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Anonymous OP 1d

He was getting married to your best friend😂

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Anonymous #5 1d

Honestly I kinda hope so, it would make me feel less bad lol

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Anonymous #5 1d

Unfortunately from my research an annulment isn’t an option for our circumstances. It’d have to be a divorce. But he seemingly wants to stay married which is an even worse issue

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Anonymous OP 1d

1. Little worried your bf was cheating 2. Ngl it kinda sounds like your husband is in love with you. Or maybe I read too many romance novels

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Anonymous OP 1d

Why wouldn’t annulment work btw?

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Anonymous OP 1d

Has he expressed any sort of interest before? If yall got away from the group it sounds like he might have wanted to get you away from the group. Maybe not for nefarious purposes but still sounds like in yalls state impulsiveness took over

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Anonymous #5 1d

Yeah he has expressed interest before, but I really think we just veered from the group accidentally

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Anonymous #6 1d

An annulment wouldn’t work because we have history technically so there’s like an established relationship. Also for how we acted immediately after the marriage

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Anonymous OP 1d

Omg tea?? There’s history? He’s expressed interest?? This is fucked but I’m so invested

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Anonymous #6 1d

Yeah there’s technically history.

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Anonymous OP 1d

And I never claimed the best friend was a good friend, yet here we are.

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Anonymous #4 1d

Fair enough

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Anonymous OP 1d

Ok I’m just going to ask point blank since you’re being vague. Have you fucked him? If so was it cheating? and did you have sex on your wedding night?

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Anonymous #6 1d

Fuck it. Yes to all of the above.

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Anonymous OP 1d

For their first question was it before you were married?

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Anonymous #5 1d

Before and after. Technically presently too.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Presently?? Is your husband with you rn??

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Anonymous OP 1d

Was it before or during your relationship with your bf? And how long had you been with him?

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Anonymous #6 1d

Yeah I was super stressed about our impending divorce so he came over to help me destress

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Anonymous #5 1d

During. I didn’t meet him until after I after dating my bf. I’d been with my bf like 10 months the first time it happened

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Anonymous OP 1d

Why stay with your bf? Also how old are yall? This seems like a not fully developed brain activity

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Anonymous #5 1d

Social pressure. My parents say they’d be disappointed in me if I left my bf. My friends all say it’d ruin the friendship group if we ever broke up. The only person who tells me it’d be okay is my “husband” but obviously he’s biased. I’m 21, my bf and husband are 22

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Anonymous OP 1d

I don’t mean this condescendingly, but Do you even love the bf? If you cheated on him I feel like that says something about what the relationship means to you.

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Anonymous #5 1d

I definitely used to. Maybe I still do as a friend. Recently he frustrates me more than anything. He’s always accusing me of cheating for the dumbest things

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Anonymous OP 1d

Did he know about the prior cheating? Did you cheat with anyone else? Did he accuse you of cheating before you initially did?

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Anonymous #5 1d

No he’s never actually known about chasing Never cheated with anyone else Yeah he accused me of cheating so much before I actually did. That’s actually like the main reason why I ended up cheating the very first time

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Anonymous OP 1d

Ok, I was actually assuming this was probably the case. Not saying it’s right, but I don’t think you should stay with him. Not saying you should stay with the husband. But def not the bf, because it doesn’t sound like that’s a situation you can build a solid relationship on.

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Anonymous #5 1d

Idk what I’m going to do about the whole situation. My husband keeps joking what we should just stay married and be together but I’m lowk worried it’s not entirely a joke lol

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yeah he’s not joking, he’s just hoping you’ll think it’s a good idea without trying to fully pressure you to stay.

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Anonymous #5 1d

Okay I mean like he probably is joking since it’s an insane idea and he’s only into me for sex

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Anonymous OP 1d

Babes he’s in love with you.

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Anonymous OP 1d

I doubt it’s just for sex if he got married to you even for the plot. Most guys are scared of that kind of commitment unless it’s with someone they genuinely love

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