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i found out that the i guy i hooked up w had a gf.
735 upvotes, 37 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "i found out that the i guy i hooked up w had a gf."
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Anonymous 3w

Tell her

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Anonymous 3w

hey girl i’ve been in a similar situation and i totally understand feeling guilty but you also have to remember that you didn’t know and that he’s the one to blame for not telling you he had a gf. you did the right thing by telling her🩷

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Anonymous 3w

it’s not fun on either side, as long as you didn’t know and you told her it’s okay diva

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Anonymous 3w

I hope you know you did nothing wrong, someone lied to you and took advantage of you not knowing something and they used your ignorance to their advantage, this man is the only one to blame especially because he took advantage of your ignorance and knew how to hurt his partner and how to pass the blame to and hurt you

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Anonymous 3w

You didn’t do anything wrong, don’t worry

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Anonymous 3w

this is NOT your fault but guilt is normal to feel! let her know and sign him up for scientology

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Anonymous 3w

Been there done that his gf called and said she was on her way over he freaked out and told me to leave 😭

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Anonymous 3w

it’s not guilt, it’s regret. you didnt know he had a gf šŸ«¶šŸ» now go make a new bestie and ruin his day together

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Anonymous 3w

This is why hooking up is stupid in general

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Anonymous 3w

Thats got nothing to do with you imo as long as you dont do it again

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Anonymous 3w

happened to me too, i told her, she blamed me and they’re still together

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Anonymous 3w

Awww. Well you did the right thing. I’m sorry he put both of you through that

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Anonymous 3w

This 100% isn’t your fault if he hadn’t hooked up with you it would’ve been some other girl

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Anonymous 3w

Not your fault tho

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Anonymous 3w

Threesomeeee

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Anonymous 3w

community pu$$y is what we call you good for recreational purposes only

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Immediately

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i did. we texted each other, and she said she doesnt blame me at all but the guilt still looms

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Honestly jump the man for doing you both wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

This too, time to pull a First Wives Club on him

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

😬 did you know before hand or not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

No i Found this man on bumble i thought him and his 6pack was single 😭 I should’ve known

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Dang he was too good to be true 😭😭

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Anonymous 3w

i texted her on instagram LOLLL

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Eh sex wasn’t that great from his end feel really bad for her but I ran into him at a bar 2 years later and he remembered me called me by my name too mind you it was 1 night 2 years ago…I’m guessing I’m the best he had or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

That’s crazy 😭😭

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Anonymous 3w

Bleh bleh bleh šŸ˜›

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 3w

thank you sm for saying thisšŸ’” its really comforting to read this

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 3w

i did dm her on insta after i found out. but i would wish scientology on anyone😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 3w

I think you meant community dick. It’s alright if you got a little confused bc clearly you aren’t the brightest. And why use those dumbass dollar signs😭 you’re a man and you’re afraid to say pussy? How ironic

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Anonymous replying to -> ilovesecrets 3w

yeah, i’ve been where you are. it’s crazy what the brain can do when someone’s genuinely terrified of losing someone like that. denial is one hell of a drug

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 3w

Cheating would still happen without hookups... There are plenty of people lying about being committed when they’re actually in multiple relationships or have multiple families. Hookups just allow people who don’t want anything serious to look for others similar. Some of those people lie, but they’d lie regardless

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 3w

I actually need to do this can you tell me how šŸ™šŸ™

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 3w

My point is that you shouldn’t be having sex with someone you don’t know at all. If u haven’t known them long enough to know they have a current partner then u haven’t known them long enough to sleep with them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 3w

I love 🐱 I don’t commit. just play.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 3w

I’m not proud but yes, over 400 chicks had my pipe — probably more tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 3w

Bro stfu

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