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“How do ik I can trust you 🥺” bitch we’re just meeting up to fuck after YOU asked for sex not me. Stop asking the same question and just give me a green light to scoop damn
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Anonymous 5w

I get wanting to know you can trust someone but that’s something you do before all this not after 😭

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Anonymous 5w

god forbid a girl wants to feel safe and asks for simple reassurance

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Anonymous 5w

Does she have sexual trauma? Cuz maybe when stuff got real she got scared and started questioning stuff as a trauma response. I’ve gotten like that before and made sure to communicate that. It also is easier to ask questions like that in-person, where you can gage the other person’s body-language

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

no literally, not right b4 were supposed to link, shes said the same question fucking twice like bro what am i supposed to tell you, you want me to come to ur place?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

If she has sexual trauma to the point of it being that serious then she shouldn’t be asking for hookups, same way as if I wouldn’t be tryna fuck people knowing i got aids its that simple. Stop expecting deep connections with people you just met.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Sometimes sexual trauma responses don’t take place until in-person. I agree that she should have some control over that but it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t have empathy for the situation. By making it out like it’s all her fault and responsibility, you are insinuating that her trauma (that she didn’t choose) is a burden on you. Which is sad. Emotions are just part of sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

It is her fault in making shit complicated by bringing it up in that context in that specific situation. I JUST MET YOU. Means I have no idea what kind of person you are or what you’re life is like besides what you look like. If you want a deep connection go find a boyfriend not a fkin random on snapchat you met yesterday. And yes her trauma is a burden on me because 1- I didn’t not agree to those terms and conditions following this information and 2- really dont care to give a fuck at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

wtf does “How do I know I can trust you” even mean like theres so many possible things it could relate to but if i asked you that and i say wdym and you say idk just get help. Atp you trolling

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Lmao I’m talking to the person who wrote the post rn, they do know each other. It’s not a hookup, they met up to have sex after knowing each other for a while. You need to re-evaluate your goals for intimacy because you are DEPRESSINGLY shallow. I pity the woman who gets caught in a relationship with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

you do realize im the OP right…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

GURL WHO IS TALKING TO ME THEN. Someone weird is in my dms lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

did somebody dm you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

theres nothing to re-evaluate about a hookup, we meetup to fuck and that’s it, if youre not ready go find a bf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

bruh then somebody is in your dms lying like crazy i got a dm too

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

if you ask me that 3-4 times and i give u different answers, explanantions, and reasons then idk what to tell you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Some crazy shit wtf 😂 nah but empathy only goes so far for strangers. You don’t owe it to them especially in this context.

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