
Does she have sexual trauma? Cuz maybe when stuff got real she got scared and started questioning stuff as a trauma response. I’ve gotten like that before and made sure to communicate that. It also is easier to ask questions like that in-person, where you can gage the other person’s body-language
Sometimes sexual trauma responses don’t take place until in-person. I agree that she should have some control over that but it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t have empathy for the situation. By making it out like it’s all her fault and responsibility, you are insinuating that her trauma (that she didn’t choose) is a burden on you. Which is sad. Emotions are just part of sex.
It is her fault in making shit complicated by bringing it up in that context in that specific situation. I JUST MET YOU. Means I have no idea what kind of person you are or what you’re life is like besides what you look like. If you want a deep connection go find a boyfriend not a fkin random on snapchat you met yesterday. And yes her trauma is a burden on me because 1- I didn’t not agree to those terms and conditions following this information and 2- really dont care to give a fuck at all.
Lmao I’m talking to the person who wrote the post rn, they do know each other. It’s not a hookup, they met up to have sex after knowing each other for a while. You need to re-evaluate your goals for intimacy because you are DEPRESSINGLY shallow. I pity the woman who gets caught in a relationship with you.