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I have sexual attraction and I have a type, but I literally don't want to do anything sexual until I'm super super comfortable with someone, like not before 6 months into the relationship. Can anyone else relate at all?
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Anonymous 6w

this is literally normal, sex is just overly normalized now. find the right person who also wants to wait for comfort

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Anonymous 6w

Yes!! As a guy it also sucks cause we’re expected to initiate, but like I don’t want to initiate yet? And that’s how the friend zone happens 😭

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Anonymous 6w

I am similar but I’m not sure I’m as along as 6 months

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Anonymous 6w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

However I feel most girls see this as disinterest :(

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