that’s not a friend😛

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Your first mistake was listening to a man girl what

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1. That person is genuinely not your friend. 2. NEVERRR listen to a man about your body, it is yours and is beautiful. Your body and brain hears you being mean to yourself :(( 3. Flat chests are fashion boobs <3

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Honestly, as a dude, I don’t think there’s anything unattractive about flatter girls. Your body is the way it is for a reason – it’s the way it’s supposed to be. I know first hand how hard it can be to feel secure in your body, so I have something of an understanding of where you’re coming from. Societal standards of attractiveness are arbitrary, and even fluctuate from culture to culture. What matters most is your mindset towards your body. Be confident in your body and love yourself

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As a guy I’m reading this thread and why are so many women telling her to change her clothes or hit the gym or wear push up bras. Lowkey prefer girls with a smaller chest or someone who doesn’t flash off their body a whole lot ie push up bras. I think it’s crazy that all these girls are telling u to change urself when u shouldn’t. Also ur friend might have lowkey meant like he found the guy version of u. He lowkey probably meant “if u were a guy” which ur not lmao he probably thought he wasfunny

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clothes make all the difference tbh

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I promise you the gym can work so many wonders for women. Find the motivation and ong it can change your body

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Genuinely imo, your body isn’t what makes you, you. I can understand that is an insecurity but I’m so sure that you are an amazing person. Don’t let others say things about you that you’re uncomfortable with. You are amazing and worth so much as a life.

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That is NOT your friend girl

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I’d drop that friend ASAP, especially if they know about the insecurities you have. Also, bodies come in all different shapes and sizes. I feel like society paints the image that the only feminine bodies are ones with a lot of curves and really big chests, but that’s just plain wrong and not realistic. There is nothing wrong with your body. 💖

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So 2 thoughts: 1) if your friend knows this is an insecurity and they still said that, I would be cautious of how much of a friend they really are. 2)your feelings are super valid about wanting to feel feminine, I would recommend finding feminine presenting celebrities with your body type and see how they utilize their figure. Also women’s bodies come in all shapes and sizes, and your body shape does not make you more or less of a woman at the end of the day, so don’t be too hard on yourself 💗

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Don’t let anyone external tell you you aren’t feminine just because you don’t fit their small idea of femininity

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As a guy, I’ve always liked people built like this

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Go hit the gym twin

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you have a natural model body, get inspo from them and make it a whole look :)

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No one is more destructive to women than other women. “I don’t like my body” “no guuuuurl ur perfectecttttttt never take steps to improve yourself or make yourself happier”

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The truth is that there is no single form of feminine beauty. There are svelte girls, there are curvy girls, there are chunky girls; there are petite girls, there are tall girls, and in-the-middle girls. All are their own variety of beauty. Just look at how beauty standards change throughout the decades. Every body type has been seen as beautiful at some point, and that goes to show how malleable our perception of beauty is by the culture around us. Look at the flapper girls of the 20s!

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Suddenly everyone’s president of the men’s rights association holy fuck

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Your body does not define your femininity or value as a woman. That was some asshole shit for her to say, and she is not correct or your friend.

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that’s not your friend, and ik how u feel! but remember that you’re still super feminine, curves or not because you’re a woman. if u need someone to talk to about this lmk cause i get the same comments babe🫶🏿

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I have no hips which basically makes me a little boy lol but I kinda accepted this.. my body wasn’t meant to be a breeding cow it was meant to be active and dynamic and strong. Be proud of what you got.

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Dm me proof of the flatness. Bc I’ve seen flat

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Do whatever you need to do to be comfortable with yourself 😌 you are your harshest critic

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You’re probably beautiful but just don’t see your assets the way others do. “Comparison is the thief of joy”. If you don’t have your desired asset try to enhance your other ones! But, again, you’re probably beautiful. 🫶

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Why are you insecure about it? Who or what would you rather look like? Genuine questions

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friends don’t talk about their friend’s appearances. my “best friend” told me i look like shit after i had told her how insecure i am, i dropped her. he’s not your friend because the “twink” part was super unnecessary he just added it to be a dick. there’s better out there.

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Push up bras and fraud to your hearts content

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3 days Dagestan forget

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Relax you’re probably cute

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cut that friend off. and hit the gym. problem solved

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Tough luck buddy

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Get therapy, go to the gym, eat more

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