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Can someone psychologically explain why I have a submissive kink as a girl? Why does it turn me on?
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Anonymous 1d

because it's comforting to be able to put all the control in the hands of someone you trust. relaxing to not have to make the decisions in the moment.

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Anonymous 1d

All I know is I’ve been this way since I was a toddler. No clue why.

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Anonymous 1d

probably just some outcome of your specific life experiences idk

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Anonymous 1d

I might get hate for this but I think girls naturally tend to have submissive kinks more due to biology. Dominant men are more likely to protect you from a threat than some submissive dude.

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Anonymous 1d

No

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Anonymous 1d

I do in fact like to tossed around and told I’m a good girl. I would really enjoy that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

its moreso our socialization and the patriarchy than “biology”. sex in our society is heavily tied to power and control, and those dynamics cannot be removed from the rest of the social structures we live within. we also tend to view sex as something done “to women by men” instead of a mutual act, which adds to the power dynamics at play. there is nothing “natural” or “inherent”, it’s just the world we grew up in

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Men’s hormones and high testosterone naturally make them, on average, more aggressive than women. Testosterone also allows for significantly more muscle growth which equals more strength which equals the power to dominate. So yes…biologically…it makes sense that men would be more dominant while women are more submissive. I don’t understand why people hate that this is true and don’t want to acknowledge it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

But i feel like not all women have this submissive kink. It may vary, so I was just curious as to why I’m over here getting wet from it.

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