I like when you are getting acquainted and you say something lowkey unwoke but framing it like "I don't mean this in an unwoke way" and then they're like no I actually do mean it in an unwoke way and then you can be real about how you mean it unwokely too
the best is just being straightforward about how you mean it in an unwoke way cause then the worst that could happen is you lose someone who would never have respected your beliefs in the first place