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It kinda pisses me off that everyone made it seem insane to give your number to a waitress/ cashier. How else are we supposed to meet ppl irl we need to get a grip
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Anonymous 12w

Im saying this as a person who wishes someone would flirt with me at work

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Anonymous 12w

Well when men have been told for years to leave women alone and not approach we listened

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Anonymous 12w

lol understandable I see this worker at lascalas every time and he always like stares at me or comes near my table and I wanna say something because he seems like someone cool to be friends with but I also feel awkward

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Yeah and I'm saying they were wrong for that. You shouldn't listen to what some random teen girls on the internet said in 2020 most of it was dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yeaaaaaah it was women of all ages and it’s still happening. The problem was the women didn’t also say ugly guys please leave us alone haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Idk all of gen x and above have said how insane it is that simply giving a girl your number is considered harassment. And I personally think that they're just weak if they can't reject someone that's like what life is and you have to get used to navigating difficult scenarios

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

That’s because everything can be seen as harassment now. And because the justice system favors the women’s side most of the time. So just seems like too much risk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

The justice system does not favor women. People are just speaking up about our abuse now. The stats are there and show that you're exponentially more likely to be a victim than be falsely accused. No one is going to arrest you for giving out your number. I think some men are just taking a few women's words and running with it, acting like all women hate men and will accuse them of stuff when that is not the case.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

As someone who has lost a job because a friend I had at a job accused me of harassing her and they didn’t even listen to my side I’m gonna say no.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Ok yes I agree that listening to both sides of the story is necessary, but we cant live our lives afraid of each other. I want kids and a husband, and currently it's not looking too good for me right now because all the assholes dont give a fuck and will ask us out but the nice, nerdy ones are too scared to say anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yeah I wanted kids and a wife but realized it’s easier and more peaceful to live my life on my own

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