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Anonymous #3 9w

Uh do dudes not also realize that we can’t just reject them…… they attack us or try to kill us for that…….

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Guys are told stuff about women “playing hard to get” so many think it’s a game when really they’re just harassing someone. Or they just don’t care and are knowingly harassing someone.

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You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take

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Anonymous OP 9w

I think there’s a difference between an in-person situation like a bar with a stranger and someone you actually know or are communicating with digitally. I had assumed this was a digital conversation.

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Anonymous #2 9w

#2 is demonstrating the exact mindset which drives this shitty behavior

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Anonymous #3 9w

There are some dudes who are just clueless and would benefit from being told no explicitly, but I guess you can’t reliably who is dangerous or not

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Anonymous #3 9w

Ok but also as a woman, the shitty one word answers have always made men more pissed/aggressive than straight rejection. Ofc you can’t generalize in any way bc everyone is different, but to me flat rejection in person is safer than the round about rejection and indirect “cues”

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Anonymous #4 9w

Right like I’d assume the people who would react shittily to a straight rejection probably aren’t the type to take a non-explicit hint

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Anonymous #3 9w

And they tend to get SUPER angry when they’ve “been led to believe” they had a chance bc you kept answering them all night because you “wasted their time”. Direct has always been easiest and safest FOR ME and in MY EXPERIENCE

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