Confessions on Sidechat | I need to talk to someone about this. I’ve been talking to this guy for 2 months and we look really different. He’s 6’3 and muscular and I’m 5’2 chubby and thick. We are meeting up soon and I’m nervous he won’t like me anymore since I’m not “ideal”

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Confessions 2w

I need to talk to someone about this. I’ve been talking to this guy for 2 months and we look really different. He’s 6’3 and muscular and I’m 5’2 chubby and thick. We are meeting up soon and I’m nervous he won’t like me anymore since I’m not “ideal”

Anonymous 2w

Does he know you’re chubby and thick? You should probably tell him/show him before you meet up. Like if you never shared that with him, like intentionally leaving something out like that feels kinda wrong and catfishing. Like you meet him and he doesn’t find you attractive or someone he’d want to be around don’t blame him as it sounds like you don’t share something important like that if you’re going for attractive to one another and I hate to say it looks so matter for 99% of people.

Anonymous

#1 2w

He might like you just for you but oftentimes that fades almost immediately. Example Love is Blind. It’s not just the way you look but life style compatibility even as friends would likely not be existent if he goes to the gym and stuff and cares about his physique and you don’t. Not to say you can’t or won’t, but you can’t expect people to wait for you to change. That’s not fair to them or you. Not that you’re asking that. That’s just my opinion