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My baby is due in a week. I’m genuinely so fucking terrified. Especially terrified that my baby will look like its biological father.

Anonymous 4w

ITS 😭

Anonymous 4w

I hope that everything goes well for you, but I know that this is probably not the most relaxing situation to be in. Manifesting that your baby is going to be stunning and look just like you. You got this 🩷

Anonymous 4w

OP do you have access to therapy? If you’re able to I think that could really help

Anonymous 4w

So are you thinking you’re not sure who the father is?

Anonymous 4w

Building off of #6, if you don’t have a therapist and don’t want to pay for one, download the app called “Ash.” It’s an AI therapist. I’ve been going to therapy for years and I find it helpful because you can have no filter and they remember everything you say

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Anonymous 4w

abortion was an option btw

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Anonymous

#1 4w

Well we’re waiting until the baby is delivered to know the gender

Anonymous

#2 4w

An option but not THE option. My body my choice, and I chose to have my baby.

Anonymous

OP 4w

hope you’re prepared to love that baby no matter what! so tired of people bringing babies in this world for no reason other than they wanted to.

Anonymous

#2 4w

Of course I’ll love my baby no matter what. I decided I wanted it because I already loved it unconditionally the second I knew it existed. I do think it’s fair though to be a little scared of it resembling its father/my rapist. I’ll still love my baby regardless, but it’d be preferable if it didn’t look like its father

Anonymous

#2 4w

What an odd thing to say

Anonymous

OP 4w

their was right there

Anonymous

#3 4w

This is gonna sound so odd but tbh they/their just feels so adult in my head, and I don’t wanna use an adult pronoun for my baby lol. It’s like the same as calling a baby sir or madam to me

Anonymous

#4 4w

Thank you so much🫶

Anonymous

#5 4w

No, unfortunately I know exactly who the father is

Anonymous

#2 4w

This is not helpful for this person. They made their choice and you’re lowkey shaming them for it

Anonymous

#2 4w

🤠🤓

Anonymous

#6 4w

I’m already in therapy actually! I’ve been doing solo sessions plus my fiancee and I have been in couples therapy for a few months to help us through this

Anonymous

OP 4w

I’m so glad to hear that, may everything go smoothly during delivery ❤️

Anonymous

#7 4w

I’m in therapy but thank you for the suggestion!

Anonymous

#6 4w

Thank you!

Anonymous

OP 4w

So am I and I still use it :)

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Anonymous

#7 4w

AI is a just a yes man it will tell you you're always in the right no matter what you're doing unless it involved hurting others or tripped some safety trigger, then it won't even respond. But do not use AI for therapy, it will just make you more selfish and convoluted and think you're always in the right.

Anonymous

#8 3w

I think that’s a broad and sweeping generalization especially if you haven’t seen this app for yourself. It doesn’t tell me that I’m right every time but it does always offer a new perspective and makes sense of why I’m saying what I’m saying.

Anonymous

#8 3w

If the AI therapist was telling me that I am correct every time, then I wouldn’t trust in it or let alone suggest it to somebody else. Because, this is coming from somebody who has been in therapy weekly for years. I may have a lot of issues, but, I am highly aware of myself and have a good intuition to know if advice being told to me is suspicious or not. And actually, it does correct me where I show cognitive distortions.

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Anonymous

#8 3w

You should test it out yourself! It’s called Ash. Tell it something that has been irking you lately. I’ll show you an example of the advice it gave me today when telling it how slow drivers anger me

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Anonymous

#1 3w

Well to update you, she’s a girl.