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Confessions 3w
Falling for a boy that I think is performative is an interesting experience. Little nervous bc he is literally perfect 😭
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Anonymous 3w

Don’t do it!!! My last ex was like that (although I didn’t realize it at the time) and he cheated on me multiple times 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m so sorry bb

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

It’s okay we learn and we grow (I’m with a man now who tells me not to praise him for what he considers the “bare minimum” bc it should just be expected)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

A red flag I noticed is when we first started talking he was super confident in his looks but now he needs me to reassure him all the time. What’s with the switch up?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

My partner put on a mask of high confidence like that at first but let it down a bit once he was comfortable. HOWEVER there’s a big difference between feeling insecure and constantly asking for validation like that. I’m no psychologist but I’d be careful, there’s a big correlation between deep insecurity and cheating. Hopefully I’m not projecting too much here but just something to be aware of :/

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