Anonymous #2 28w

Lmaooooo

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Anonymous #6 28w

how else would she sustain staying at home in lingerie and cooking all day

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Anonymous #15 28w

Guy doesn’t have to be rich to have a wife that likes to do that.

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Anonymous #6 28w

If you can’t fund this lifestyle then you can’t have it, simple as that. Having a partner stay home and then kids on top of that costs A LOT of money. It’s not the 1950’s where the common man can have this anymore

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Anonymous #4 28w

Yeah if you have kids obviously. The original post didn’t specify kids. But two people is possible

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Anonymous #4 28w

Also yeah if only it was the 1950s. Cheaper everything

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Anonymous #6 28w

Not really, because not only are you covering bills for two people you’re also funding her life. Nails, hair, makeup, waxing, shopping, etc. adds up. And if you don’t like that, don’t get a woman who likes to look beautiful because beauty is expensive. And forget about the lingerie and frills. If all you can afford is rags don’t be surprised when you come home to rags

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Anonymous #4 28w

Yeah it adds up but there also is more to a relationship than just monetary value and material things. But forgot that’s how relationships have been turned into. What do I get out of it? What value can you bring to my life?

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Anonymous #6 28w

It’s always been like that, people are just more honest about it. Marriages for love are in fact more a recent thing. Back in ye olden day the only reason you got married was for some kind of gain, whether that be wealth or heirs. I can cook meals from scratch, clean daily, take care of the home, and raise children. But if you can’t afford that life, you either need to get your money up or accept a wife who doesn’t do those things

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Anonymous #6 28w

Love be damned, no woman wants to birth and raise children and then serve a man who makes her struggle financially. The same way you wouldn’t marry and provide for a woman who was fat, ugly, and doesn’t do anything at home. Social capital.

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Anonymous #4 28w

Yeah and do we live in those times? Yeah didn’t think we did. Seems like you don’t want love at all. Just the security

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Anonymous #6 28w

I’ll look for love when I believe in it. Until then, I’ll live in reality where nothing comes for free

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Anonymous #4 28w

Kindness and love come free and are based in reality. You’ll make your third husband very happy I know it :)

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Anonymous #6 28w

“Love” is a chemical reaction in your brain that makes your dick hard and it goes away once your lady ages. If it’s perfectly okay for a man to chuck his wife in the garbage as soon as her skin wrinkles and her tits get saggy why shouldn’t I do the same when the money dries up? You think you want “love” but you want the same thing every other man wants. A hot, young, submissive woman who will do all your chores and cooking and look cute while doing it and fucks you

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Anonymous #6 28w

There’s a reason no man fantasizes about being with an ugly, fat, trollish looking 60 year old woman with tits down to her knees and a smokers cough. Your “love” is limited to how hard she makes your dick, and once that’s gone you’ll have no problem jumping shit for a fresh 18 year old. Why shouldn’t I be just as eager to jump ship for a richer man?

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Anonymous #4 28w

Yeah see the thing is you literally don’t know me. What you described is a chemical reaction to physical attraction. It’s a natural reaction. It’s not love. It can be what starts love. I’m guessing someone hurt you. Most likely a man or multiple men. Love is wanting the person to be happy even when it’s not with you. Love is immediate relief and safety just from their presence. Love is knowing the person could crush your heart in an instant but you know they wouldn’t.

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Anonymous #4 28w

So actually no I don’t think I’d toss my love when we are old and wrinkly. Because that’s life. We age and die. But it’s a lot better with someone you love.

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Anonymous #4 28w

Also might want to go to therapy to help with the misandry. Might help :)

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Anonymous #6 28w

Well for your future wife’s sake I’ll hope that’s true. Because money won’t wake up one day and decide it doesn’t love me 😎

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Anonymous #6 28w

It’s not misandry, it’s just pattern recognition. Marriage is a contract where I get something and you get something. I don’t have to love or even like the person I marry so long as both of our obligations are being fulfilled. That makes more sense than putting all my faith in someone just for a chemical reaction in their brain that can easily go away

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Anonymous #4 28w

Again you’re confusing love with lust. Also you think women don’t fantasize being with an ugly, fat, lard 60 year old? No they don’t. Again you literally don’t know me. So you assuming what I’d do is not founded in fact but again it’s just the misandry from someone hurting you. You can jump ship when you get the money all you want. Your life to live.

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Anonymous #6 28w

Maybe not you but a huge portion of men. Other women might but I’m not gambling my life on whether someone’s love is going to last forever. Have a nice night

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Anonymous #4 28w

Misandry is defined as a hatred of men. You clearly do haha. You’ve had so many men hurt you that you have concluded that all of them are the same. I thought the same after my abusive relationship. Yet not all women are gonna treat me the same way neither are men. So again therapy might help you but I doubt you’ll even want to get better. Yeah money will never leave you. But it also won’t be there for the good and bad times. Also won’t matter when you’re dead haha

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Anonymous #4 28w

You really have so much hatred it’s actually sad

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Anonymous #6 28w

I don’t hate men? I just see life for what it is. Men want something. I want something. We enter a contract where we each get what we want, and no feelings have to be involved. I don’t see how that’s hatred? Also money will definitely be there through good and bad times. Love won’t matter when you’re dead either. Lol

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Anonymous #4 28w

You don’t hate men yet you have no faith they could want to be with a woman for more than sex. You think most will use women as objects and don’t see women as actual people. Yeah do you hug money when you cry? Haha

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Anonymous #6 28w

I would absolutely wipe my tears with money 🙂‍↔️ and if I really needed a person when I was upset, I have friends and family to go to

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Anonymous #4 28w

Again your third husband is gonna love you haha

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Anonymous #6 28w

That’s okay, he doesn’t need to love me, and quite frankly I don’t care if he even likes me or not

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Anonymous #6 28w

I don’t delude myself with the need to chase love. I don’t need to be loved or liked, as long as I get my end of the bargain it doesn’t make a difference to me

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Anonymous #4 28w

Don’t know how you’re gonna get any guy to go for you cause pretty sure if you aren’t even a little bit pleasant they won’t want to even talk to you. Unless you’re just gonna fake it to get the money

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Anonymous #2 28w

Where are the guys like this irl

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Anonymous #6 28w

as bad as it sounds, all relationships are inherently transactional, you want to get something when you give back, although its bad to perceive it that way

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Anonymous #19 28w

🙋‍♂️

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