Confessions on Sidechat | this girl in my friend group is horribly mistreated by her bf. like he tells her he’s gonna leave her for a big booty latina bitch all the time, that she doesn’t do shit for him, blah blah blah but she stays with him and her social media all says 1/2

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Confessions 4w

this girl in my friend group is horribly mistreated by her bf. like he tells her he’s gonna leave her for a big booty latina bitch all the time, that she doesn’t do shit for him, blah blah blah but she stays with him and her social media all says 1/2

Anonymous 4w

her social media is all “I love my boyfriend” and her tiktok even has reposts that give us a glimpse into how toxic they are in the privacy of their own lives lol she even sent us a snap with a hickey on her neck all proud as if that’s not the ONLY thing her bf does for her (and it’s self serving) idk, just feel bad for judging but she’s stupid as fuck for staying. nobody is gonna want her after he leaves her bc she already tied herself to him so much

Anonymous 4w

She needs a man who actually respects her bc this guy clearly doesn’t.

Anonymous

#1 4w

she has to respect herself first ig. we told her, shit even her man has told her in front of us to FIND SOMEONE ELSE 😭

Anonymous

OP 4w

She won’t know how until she has somebody else who treats her better

Anonymous

#1 4w

I think she’s probably capable of learning self-respect but for that to happen something’s gotta break her complacency with being disrespected.

Anonymous

#2 4w

Yep ding dig ding this right here

Anonymous

#1 4w

Like, if your concept of self-respect relies on others teaching you how to do it, you’ll never find it. The best thing she could do for herself is leave him and NOT immediately jump into anything else with another guy until she’s reflected on why she allowed herself into that bad situation in the first place and learned how not to get into it again.

Anonymous

#2 4w

I’m not saying Jump into somethin else I’m saying until somebody else treats her correctly whether friend, coworker, mom, etc she won’t know how she should be treated I think it’s deeper than her Man but idk her so who knows

Anonymous

#2 4w

If someone is in a bad relationship, even if they’re not The Asshole in the situation, they still need some time on their own after it ends to reflect on why they tolerated The Asshole for as long as they did. She could find Prince Charming tomorrow, but unless she already has a strong sense of self, Prince Charming probably won’t wanna be with her since people who lack in self-respect tend to engage in self-destruction.

Anonymous

#2 4w

Both partners having a healthy sense of self-respect is JUST as important to a healthy relationship as both partners respecting each other.