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followup question. how can yall date someone you weren't friends with first like hookups make sense but you're fr getting into whole relationships with strangers?
genuine question: why are some people so against being friends with their exes? like if yall were friends before you dated why do you feel like you can't be after idgi...
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Anonymous 2w

to answer the original question, people are against it because people wouldn’t like to date someone who’s still friends with their exes. to be friends mean to text, hang out, etc. that’s uncomfortable as a partner because the two of you had feelings for each other and even had sex together.

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Anonymous 2w

I mainly get along with males and if I decided to mess around with them, I couldn’t be friends with them after.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

also, to answer this question, it’s because not every initial feeling you have for someone is platonic. sometimes, there are people that you meet that you immediately see as a romantic interest. so then then you date, then you become a couple. it’s completely possible (and not weird) to not be friends first.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

This, exactly

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