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THIS OR NOTHING I’m cool w being a cat lady surrounded by lovely friends and family if men can’t deconstruct their patriarchal beliefs and privileges 😍
115 upvotes, 74 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "THIS OR NOTHING I’m cool w being a cat lady surrounded by lovely friends and family if men can’t deconstruct their patriarchal beliefs and privileges 😍"
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Anonymous 16h

No cause men are scary

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Anonymous 11h

Eugh gender wars are for the unintelligent. Keep working to distract yourselves from real problems occurring

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Anonymous 17h

Why yall stop replying to my post I made quoting this 😂🤦🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous 3h

Lol imagine me spending my time reading all your imbecilic, inane posts. I have no need considered a misogynist’s thoughts. No man who isn’t misogynistic would sit here and not listen to women.. it’s the least he can do. Anyway rant into the void dumbass 😘

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Anonymous 15h

Same, I will never change my beliefs for a women. Long live the patriarchy

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Anonymous 4h

I mean, ur asking for the bare minimum while being a complete nuisance. No shit a grown ass man isn’t going to be misogynistic, racist, uneducated, or transphobic, if they are, maybe men aren’t bad, and you’re just bad at picking men. It’s not men’s fault u pick the most idiotic and childish ones, that’s 100% on u. You do know women can get to choose who they say yes to, right? You do know men are the ones chasing, right? You do know u can make assumptions based on character about a man, right?

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Anonymous 17h
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Anonymous 16h

i have already blocked everybody in this comment section. says a lot about the quality of responses

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Cause no one wants to argue with an idiot

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

I just did a 1v4 and won 😭🙏🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

LMAOOO you did not I fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

Yea yea yea, we all know I did lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

I looked at ur post and literally everyone ate u up- I got second hand embarrassment for you 😬 either u trolling or u stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

They didn’t and that’s why they stopped responding everytime I proved them wrong lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Oh.. so you’re delulu. Somehow worse

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Whatever 😂 I made my point bye

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

so OP is specifically talking about not wanting to have to be the one to catch her man up to speed on fairly basic political principles. and you’re over here posting a Google AI summary (which basically amounts to an extremely general “you’re never done learning!” statement) like you think you did something…? 😭 most brutal self-own I’ve seen on here in weeks, and that’s a pretty high bar to exceed

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

Stay miserable, delusional, and dumb then baby do yo thanggg lmfao🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

#7 REAL💯 these men wanna act real stupid when accountability and effort enter the room

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

the ironic part being that maybe if you listened to women you would have realized by now that they aren’t the only ones being tortured & crushed to death under patriarchy

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

Everyone suffers from the patriarchy. And it is the patriarchal men I know who are the most miserable and mentally trapped people I know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

The patriarchy doesn’t exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

Where do you guys get that idea. It’s so strange

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

it’s tragic, cause imagine how much better off he could be on several levels if he took all this time & energy he wastes on arguing very badly online, and instead invested that shit into like… idk… watching pre-101-level video essays on intersectionality? even just as a foundation to build forward from

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

exactly. on the one hand I really do pity guys who struggle with undoing patriarchal brainwashing that’s been pushed on them since childhood, but on the other, it’s still a prison of their own making on some level

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14h

Open your eyes and u might find out if you have a brain behind them

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

I pity them too. My ex was like that. I didn’t fully realize the whole picture until we broke up. I cared about him so much, I tried with all my heart to help him heal and grow. But he protected the source of his misery bc it’s tied to his identity and ego/pride, and it provides him privilege. But the cost of the male privilege and pride is much more severe than he understands. That’s why I’ll never date a man like him again.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

makes perfect sense to me—you can have more-or-less bottomless compassion for another person and still recognize that it’s counterproductive to continuously sacrifice yourself in the name of trying to help them. especially when that help isn’t being effectively utilized or appreciated on their end

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

I’m willing to talk with you about it casually if you want, but i don’t want an intense debate that’s going to take a lot of effort and time. What makes you so convinced there is one Tbh you sound like someone who hasn’t even considered seriously for a moment that they might be incorrect and mistaken

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13h

Dude that’s ur problem. Men like you don’t like to make effort and time on things. This isn’t a casual matter, and you have no right to tell a woman she’s mistaken about her own oppression. Especially insane bc I’ve worked in a domestic violence shelter. As a woman I don’t want to talk to men who can’t even see the issue, it’s not worth my energy. It just hurts and exhausts me to be gaslit by men. So I’ll pass. Hope u open ur eyes someday. Women in ur life will be grateful.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

I always hate when women are in relationships with men and after they break up they “see the bad side.” That’s another convo. YOU ARE GROUPING ME IN WITH THESE MORONS? #5 blocked me because probably called him a cuck as he is and #6 even though I call women out, I’m even smart enough to know they are smarter than us😂but your rage bait is lazy I can tell you are swine. You men on this app literally disgust me. You are either thinking with the wrong head or none. It’s pathetic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Um yes.. if you tell a woman she might be mistaken about it misogyny then you are indeed a moron. Also if you can’t understand the wisdom that comes from reflection on things u been thru then yeah.. moronic behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

It is definitely not my problem bc it has nothing to do with me what you believe. As for the 2nd sentence, I’m literally asking you rn and taking some time and you’re just getting upset about it. Life in general is hard. The truth is that women like you mistakenly assume that it’s particularly harder for you bc that’s the only experience you have to draw on. Anybody can claim they are oppressed. I can claim I’m oppressed bc I’m a man, does that mean you don’t have the right to tell me you don

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12h

don’t believe I’m oppressed. I can state my opinion on any matter and you actually don’t have the right to tell me I can’t. You can only disagree. When you become an asshole however is when you can’t stand anybody even disagreeing with you. You working in a domestic violence shelter has nothing to do with anything. Literally everybody experiences violence at the hands of others humans regardless of gender. That’s your mistake, and a common one that countless women make bc of their individual e

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12h

experience. And not just violence people experience a myriad of different hardships in life. It’s absolutely absurd to boil it down to some imaginary patriarchy. Some personal experience with another human can’t be extrapolated out onto the entirety of society. Not entirely sure why it happens besides that so many women have been sold a lie that they’re oppressed. Now for the passive aggressive part that, “I hope you open your eyes, any male in your life will thank you.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12h

Well I suppose that’s not entirely true, I do somewhat understand why those ideas propagate so much. A lot of women subconsciously love the idea of latching onto an ideology that affirms the anger they feel towards men. Some level of anger towards the opposite gender is normal in humans. But it definitely gets out of control with this stuff sometimes and this ideology just seems harmful to almost everyone it touches, especially on the extreme ends

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

Dude, it is seriously not a good look to not know about the patriarchy in 2026 when women are losing their bodily autonomy and entire industries are propped up around the commodification of women’s looks. That’s just two off the top of my head, there are more. Just because you’re having a jolly old time doesn’t mean it’s the same way for everyone. Look around at what people are experiencing. When a woman tells you what she’s going through, listen

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9h

1. Exactly, it’s 2026, if you still think after a century of this movement that you have oppression anywhere close to what existed as a cultural phenomenon 100 years ago, you’ll never believe that you’re free from oppression. You victimizing yourself and oppressing yourself in your own mind. You’re treated far better than most and you’re just too self absorbed and self centered to notice it or listen when anybody else tells you to pay attention to the truth. You just want to believe so bad in wh

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

whatever narrative makes you feel best and lets you behave however you most want and it doesn’t matter if you have to be a brat and a total douche and asshole to do it. Constantly shaming an entire gender and trying to tell them that they’re perpetually oppressing and wronging you just for being the gender they are. It’s absolutely insane and absurd and it says a lot about some of your intelligences that you can’t or won’t see that. If you had a man tell you that you would laugh in his face but

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

it’s actually way more true in that circumstance than any of you have ever taken a moment of your brat lives to consider and contemplate seriously. You’re actually the ones not listening. There are plenty of women who aren’t stupid enough to victimize themselves and whine and complain and constantly bitch and villain - ize other innocent people just for who they are (which happens to be sexist, ironic that you’re actually the sexist ones). Maybe take a moment to go on youtube and search any of t

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

the women who are intelligent enough to not buy into that kindergarten level model of the world. It’s literally embarrassing that you people do. Why don’t YOU go LISTEN to those countless women for a minute or the countless men who will tell you how sick and tired they are of your bullshit and hearing you tell them how they are to other people when you’ve never met them. It’s complete bullshit and you’d know it if you took a moment to use your atrophied brain.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

As for women “losing their bodily autonomy”, 1. It’s not losing your bodily autonomy to not have a medication payed for by someone else. That is not a right 2. That mifepristone ban was repealed by courts, I get notifications about healthcare drugs all day long. 3. It’s not “losing your bodily autonomy” if the population of a certain place, municipality, state or country exercise what is their right to make a certain medical practice illegal in their jurisdiction. You can literally go to anot

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

another state and get it done and stop bitching and acting like the world is falling down just bc you can’t have unprotected sex with Chad with as much autonomy and not as many repercussions and consequences and inconveniences anymore you spoiled selfish self absorbed disgusting animalistic brats.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

4. That’s not having your bodily autonomy messed with or a real problem you spoiled first world children. Losing your bodily autonomy is the women in Africa having their vaginas sewn shut by African warlords or the women in the middle east having acid thrown in their face for not wearing a hijab or the men in south east asia who get kidnapped and sold into slavery on fishing boats. As for “entire industries are propped up around the commodification of women’s look”, how stupid and non thinking

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

can you be, First of all, that’s literally how every industry works. When there’s a demand for something it is filled. Almost every industry and every sales tactic and team in the world is trained to sell off of and prey off of some part of the human psyche. That is not just limited to women. Not always necessarily bad things, sometimes it is things people genuinely need or that make their lives better. Should I no longer get ads for manscaped and carpe deodorant bc they’re predatory and making

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

money off the backs of my male gender? McDonalds sells hamburgers because humans want to eat hamburgers. Louis Vuitton Moet Hennesy sell LV, Fendi and Marc Jacobs to women for the same reason they sell Hublots watches to men. There a portion of them who want to buy them. Same with the cosmetics segment. If you have a problem with them you don’t have to buy them but you’re going to have trouble telling other women not to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8h

And you’re not listening, I’m not having a jolly good time and my entire gender is not. You’re just too self absorbed to listen yourself to what everybody else tells you. Literally everybody has problems bc life is hard. You just think yours are the pinnacle of it all. Newsflash, you can’t tell everyone else to pay attention to your own suffering. You don’t get to do that and you’re being an asshole when you do bc everybody else has their own bullshit they’re already trying to deal with you pom

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

pompous losers. As for it “not being a good look” First of all, never steal phrases from me or things you’ve heard me say. It’s wickedly embarrassing to witness even though in a way I take it as a compliment and it’s not a good look. Stop stealing things you’ve heard me say before and saying them back at me just bc you got butthurt when you heard them. 2nd what do you mean not know about the patriarchy? What in the fug are you talking about, everybody has HEARD of the patriarchy you absolute

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

moron clown. What I wrote was that it doesn’t exist. There is no cabal of men collaborating to oppress you when they don’t even know or care who you are you vain megalomaniac. Nobody cares about you. And guess what, they care even less about men and that’s the way it’s supposed to be. So take your privilege and be grateful. 3rd I couldn’t care less how a bunch of complete losers like you and your gal pals on the worst community in the world think about anything I say. These are not people anybo

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

anybody needs to be concerned about or holds in high esteem. There are much more respectable and intelligent people for that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

You clearly have a long way to go. I hope you make it someday. It’s not productive to go through it all with you, but I’ll just address one point instead. Critiquing the patriarchy isn’t “shaming an entire gender”, nor are men “perpetually oppressing and wronging” women just for being men. This is propaganda. Many liberal men are guilty of this line of thought. When someone points something out, don’t see it as an attack. There may be frustration, but it’s at the system, not your person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8h

It’s absolutely incredible how people can walk you and hold your hand through the entire thing and you don’t hear a word of it like water off a ducks back and go right back to your stuck up high horsing propping yourself up on a pedestal with your passive aggressive “you clearly have a long way to go, I hope you make it someday. it’s not worth it to go through it with you.” In case you haven’t noticed, that’s exactly how I and countless people think about you. That you’re a near hopeless case c

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

captured by a dangerous useless damaging ideology who is not worth bothering with. That’s why I said way up at the beginning in my 1st and 2nd comment:

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

Actually 1st 2nd and 3rd comment: Patriarchy doesn’t exist, where do you guys get that idea, it’s so strange, I’m willing to talk through it with you but I don’t want a long intense debate that’s going to take a lot of time. After someone I knew is a hopeless case complained that nobody listens. In case you guys haven’t noticed, nobody wants to listen bc they’ve heard the whole song and dance before and look at you that way. That you’re all just hopeless spoiled ideologues who are whining and b

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

bitching and doing plenty of oppressing yourselves constantly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

They’re tired of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

I genuinely do not know why you’re mad at me. If I came off passive aggressive, I apologize; that wasn’t my intention. Insult me all you want, but remember what I said. Women pointing things out isn’t an attack on you. Interpreting it that way is counterproductive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7h

I have a brain and can think for myself thank you. I don’t need tot telling me what to think about anything. And ik you think you know what you’re talking about but you don’t and you’re just as brainwashed as the other women here. Why don’t YOU take a moment to consider what I just said and spend some hours doing what I suggested listening to some women talk about how damaging this entire ideology is. Insted of immediately junping to thinking you have the right to tell me the right way to interp

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7h

interpret anything or what’s the correct way to be productive and what the wrong way that is counterproductive. Bc believe it or not, ik much better than you which is which and can see it with much greater clarity.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7h

*need you telling me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7h

*what’s the wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7h

I don’t even need you to agree with me here, just remember what I said. It’s not an attack. We aren’t your enemies.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7h

I’m not the one that needs to remember our review anything here. Get that through your head and do your own self examination. How many times do I have to say it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7h

*or

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Anonymous replying to -> weeehaw 3h

Yeah so misogyny is on of the biggest most pervasive issues on the planet. You just hate accountability and don’t care about women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3h

You sound like a simpleton. Life isn’t that black and white. And no, a man’s abusive, ignorant, and deceptive behavior is never 100% on a woman. It’s on him. And many men are like that. Fully their fault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3h

The wrong-usage of the word misogyny has made the word useless, just like the Zionists did with anti-semitism. We don’t hate women, but equal rights are equal rights, and yall are CLEARLY looking for superiority, not equalism.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3h

So ur telling me that the tatted, womanizer, drug dealing, n-word saying, no college degree, man was deceiving you? Then I guess you’re not only arrogant, you’re also ignorant. The signs are there, it isn’t hard to tell whether a man is good or bad, just like it isn’t to tell about woman. If you don’t agree, it’s probably because you’ve always been the bad one and have never tried to find the good one. Men are great, the ones u choose suck because u suck at choosing men. Thats all.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2h

That’s yesterday bro. I woke yall Lost. Leave it be. Make another dumb post and I correct you on that one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 30m

Your “corrections” (mansplaining) all have negative likes. Lol keep posting sweet cheeks u make me laugh with all that unbacked, deluded confidence

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 29m

Doesn’t mean it wasn’t true lol? If you are going off of downvotes you really are that dull, huh? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22m

Actually yeah boo boo it means u looking dumb asf💔🥱 u relying on “it doesn’t mean I’m wrong” is pretty pathetic as well.. like I said, fully unbacked confidence. Thx for immediately proving my point. oh sweetie, this so embarrassing for u😂 but I’m here 4 the show luv, ur like my personal jester rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21m

I bet you got a humiliation kink, is that what this is? ;)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13m

Let me dumb this down for you. Most people wanted Trump as president as he won. Were they right? OMG! THAT LITTLE BRAIN IS TURNING GEARS!! Everything I said was fact and I even posted pics proving it lol. Stay wrong and stay mad 😂😂

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