Confessions on Sidechat | Why can’t people be normal around people with SH scars, especially on the internet? Can I just exist? Must I constantly cover that part of me and my history? Tip: if you see someone with scars online or irl, just don’t bring it up. It’s that easy.

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Confessions 29w

Why can’t people be normal around people with SH scars, especially on the internet? Can I just exist? Must I constantly cover that part of me and my history? Tip: if you see someone with scars online or irl, just don’t bring it up. It’s that easy.

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Anonymous 29w

People either act disgusted or sexualize it 🫠

Anonymous 29w

someone just complimented my scars today. it felt good ngl.

Anonymous 29w

One time a guy thought that I was cutting myself… it was my stretch marks…

Anonymous

#1 29w

ough don’t get me started I dated a dude that ended up being a fetishist 🤮

Anonymous

OP 29w

That’s sucks I’m so sorry😭😭

Anonymous

#2 29w

That’s weird. Ignoring them and not outwardly acting disgusted is one thing, but complimenting them? What?

Anonymous

#3 29w

He's not a random stranger. He asked me what were they and then told me they look cool

Anonymous

#2 29w

That’s still strange. They don’t represent anything good. They’re not cool and don’t look cool. It’d be one thing if he complimented your strength in getting past that time or recovery or something. But complimenting the physical appearance is strange.

Anonymous

#3 29w

omg they look cool get over it

Anonymous

#3 29w

Scars do look pretty badass. If this person has no problem with being complimented then neither should you 🤷‍♀️

Anonymous

#2 29w

You’re romanticizing self harm and mutilated skin but sure go ahead.

Anonymous

#3 29w

People like you are so insufferable