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Why can’t people be normal around people with SH scars, especially on the internet? Can I just exist? Must I constantly cover that part of me and my history? Tip: if you see someone with scars online or irl, just don’t bring it up. It’s that easy.
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Anonymous 4w

People either act disgusted or sexualize it 🫠

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Anonymous 4w

someone just complimented my scars today. it felt good ngl.

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Anonymous 3w

One time a guy thought that I was cutting myself… it was my stretch marks…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

ough don’t get me started I dated a dude that ended up being a fetishist 🤮

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s sucks I’m so sorry😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

That’s weird. Ignoring them and not outwardly acting disgusted is one thing, but complimenting them? What?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

He's not a random stranger. He asked me what were they and then told me they look cool

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

That’s still strange. They don’t represent anything good. They’re not cool and don’t look cool. It’d be one thing if he complimented your strength in getting past that time or recovery or something. But complimenting the physical appearance is strange.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

omg they look cool get over it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Scars do look pretty badass. If this person has no problem with being complimented then neither should you 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

You’re romanticizing self harm and mutilated skin but sure go ahead.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

People like you are so insufferable

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