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My bf doesn’t like to send shirtless pics bc he thinks he’s fat but I send full body nudes and I think I’m fat which I think is unfair but I don’t know how to explain it without sounding like an ashole
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Anonymous 3w

Personally I don’t know the full story so I apologize if what I say is wrong but I think it’s a double standard he shouldnt expect u to send that and not be willing to give anything in return maybe you should sit down and tell him that if he wants to not send anything bcs of how he feels about his body then your not going to send anything bcs you feel the same about ur body

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Anonymous 3w

I was in a situation similar to yours, but my thought process was just to be supportive of her and reassure that she is gorgeous. I wouldn't call you an asshole unless you were pressuring them into something they obviously don't wanna do. It doesn't seem you've done that. Just be patient with them, offer reassurance. It won't feel fair, you two are affected differently by the thoughts you have ab yourselves. That's humanity. Stay a safe space for your partner 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It might not be an explicit expectation, I feel like it's just a difference in what each gives the other as far as their own choice. But this is also speculation, if the situation is closer to how U imagine, I def agree. Double standards suck

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I agree I might be wrong like I said I don’t know the full story so I apologize if anything I say is wrong just from the way I read that’s how I took but my brain could of been very wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No no we're in the same boat! I'm just waiting to see if op gives more context or something. I hope you have a great night 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

For more context I used to be anorexic still kinda am and I told him when I was really drunk. He is really insecure about himself too tho. We usually trade but it’s not even

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

People grow differently and at different speeds. I'd still recommend the patience route, though I understand how it can be a frustrating situation

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