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Confessions 11w
Tbh, as a woman, I have intense gender envy. I don't want to be a man, but I want what men have (as a woman). The power, the respect, the lack of sexualization/objectification, the strength boost, etc. I CRAVE IT
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Anonymous 11w

heavy on lack of sexualization

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Anonymous 11w

girl it sounds like WE (yes, WE) envy their privilege that comes with their gender and not their gender itself

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Anonymous 11w

Lack of sexualization is crippling for self esteem. Women get 90% of sexualization and it’s obviously going to be very toxic for them it should be split 50/50

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Yet women use it to their advantage all the time sooooooo I think it’s more unwanted sexualization

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

Obviously some people are going to make the unwanted sexualization work in their favor. It's very normal for people to try to make the best of a bad situation/try to get something out of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Are you trying to say split 50/50 between women and men? It's also not a lack of sexualization that's bad for self-esteem. Sexualization over time is very psychologically fracturing. And can lead to viewing the people who dehumanize you as less than human theirselves. Its lack of praise, being wanted, people finding you attractive, kindness, human connection, compliments, that is bad for self-esteem.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Sexualization is having your entire being reduced to a sexual entity. Being viewed through a lens of straight lust. Being eyed like prey or some inhumane object.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Ok yet there’s not really a male version of that

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

a lot of men get away with doing weird and creepy shit because they’re attractive. obviously some ppl call em out for it but not enough people for that person ‘s platform to rlly be taken down

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