Anonymous #1 18h

Yet they are

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Anonymous #2 17h

I don’t understand why though. I’m just in love and happy

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Anonymous #1 17h

Well lots of reasons

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Anonymous #2 17h

Name one.

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Anonymous #1 17h

You’ve been dating a man for 10 weeks and you’re marrying him that’s a giant red flag

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Anonymous #2 17h

We’re just like getting legally married for legal protection reasons. But we were going to eventually for genuine love reasons too

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Anonymous #1 17h

That’s still a red flag girl

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Anonymous #2 17h

How is it a red flag? He’s doing it to protect me

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Anonymous #1 17h

Well the fact you where engaged to a man you hated and now are marrying a man you’ve dated/known for 10 weeks bc I assume the man you broke the engagement with isn’t to happy

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Anonymous #2 17h

Idk how my ex fiance is doing. Unfortunately I wasn’t there when he read the note I left him

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Anonymous #1 17h

Yeah well like I’m sorry but a lot of it is probably your mindset like you can have sex and no marry someone

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Anonymous #2 17h

I agree that we could’ve just kept having sex without being married right now, but we’re specifically getting married super soon to help me out with some other legal stuff

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Anonymous #1 17h

Like what??

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Anonymous #1 17h

What if it doesn’t work out like you get divorced

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Anonymous #2 17h

My parents are trying to put me in a conservatorship because they think I’m too uneducated and naive to make decisions on my own and apparently I have the “mindset of a child.” So if we get legally married then they won’t be able to do that (at least not nearly as easily) and they can’t just take me away from him

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Anonymous #2 17h

Then we get divorced. A lot of people do. It sucks but it’s far from the end of the world

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