I think it’s the dumbest thing for people to expect only to “get” in a relationship and don’t want to “give” to their partner. Dating should be as close to 50/50 as possible, expecting to only be showered with gifts is not a relationship
The most annoying part is trying to explain to them what they want is a sugar baby relationship and not an actual one and then they say they want love. Love isn’t using someone else’s credit card constantly and then not even offering to pay for a coffee