I understand exactly what you mean and I have gone through this a lot. I went back to an ex who lied to me about everything - and I mean everything - because I was tired of a year of trying to meet people and only being wanted for sex. It was comforting to feel like I was wanted for more than that, even if it wasn’t even real.

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wym hun?

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I understand completely sitting here missing my ex who was horrible to me

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Damn

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Yup and then when you finally get a good man, you either self sabotage or fear for when the other shoe will drop

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tell me abt it😭😭i am rlly happy though ive fought that and have shifted the focus to me!!! bc thats what we as women deserve!!! ofc care and love too but make sure you have more than enough before looking at anyone else. afterwhile, you become ur own companion and it’s way better than some asshole:]

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I relate to this with these women fr. The best girls r ok and boring to me and the worst ones I miss the most

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Same for me as a guy. Last gf cheated and I haven’t been able to “click” with anyone since. Or at least they haven’t been able to click with me. Feels like I’m stuck.

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Do u ever think shutting up will help

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