Confessions on Sidechat | Are men not the ones being expected to be proactive and plan dates most of the time? I’m pretty sure in the majority of relationships men are the ones being proactive and planning everything

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Confessions 19h

Are men not the ones being expected to be proactive and plan dates most of the time? I’m pretty sure in the majority of relationships men are the ones being proactive and planning everything

Confessions 1d

my observations of relationships: women need to stop nagging/mommying/ repeating themselves. stop trying to change ppl. just leave men need to be proactive. plan dates/ gifts without having their hand held. & share the cooking & cleaning

Anonymous 19h

Yes it has always been the expectation and always will be but men don’t do it anymore which is why we have to always talk about it all the time. You’re the man take care of your girl and show your love holy shit why do you want a girl if you’re not gonna give a shit about her?? Be gay find a man and you can sit your asses on the couch and make out together

Anonymous 19h

im the OOP- every woman ive met has had to be the planner while the men do the bare minimum. never given flowers without asking. many fathers not knowing their kids birthdays or drs appointments, etc. the women kind of manage their social lives for them. this is SO common occurrence that studies have been done and the phrase "mental load" is used. it wont take long to find millions of stories and examples.

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#2 19h

not saying all men are like this, but its definitely common. literally ask ANY woman

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#1 19h

if anybody isnt willing to care about their partner, anticipate their needs, plan dates, keep note of their interests... they should just stay single. if men dont like women's interests and hobbies and personalities, homosexuality is always an option. it seems like a lot of men dont even like women- they're only interested in them sexually.

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Anonymous 18h

? not only did i NOT call anybody gay, being gay isnt an insult- im bisexual myself lol. i was giving good advice- all i said was that its ok to explore other options if it feels like you arent interested in women. i didnt call anybody gay, i just suggested it as an option. a lot of guys already seem to enjoy spending time with their boys way more, and i want them to feel encouraged to explore that

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Anonymous 16h

im just giving alternatives. not forcing anyone to do anything on YIKYAK LMFAO? also your assumption is incorrect lol. after having dated men, i dont think theres anything to be jealous or upset about. dating them is usually very unappealing. i much prefer women

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Anonymous 14h

not forcing anything. am i holding a gun to anyones head or starving them unless they kiss men?💀💀💀💀 take a chill pill just saying that we live in a day and age where ppl can explore their sexualities. thats it buddy

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Anonymous 14h

what about i prefer to date women and i don't like dating men do you not get? what part about that is hard to comprehend

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Anonymous 13h

i said the men who DONT LIKE spending time with women should reflect and consider exploring other options. this maybe could be aromanticism or maybe being queer nobodys forcing straight men at gun point to suck dick, calm down. if you DO LIKE SPENDING TIME WITH WOMEN, then this isnt ABOUT YOU

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Anonymous 13h

"men always love spending time with women".... thats LITERALLY not true. lets not make definitive statements about an entire group of people. if that WAS true, why do so many men call their wives a ball & chain? why do lots of especially older men joke that they hate their wives? (aka boomer humor) are we forgetting about that VIRAL twitter thread where THOUSANDS of men shared how much they hate their girlfriends?