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I’m a little bit annoyed at my bf bc I changed my pfp on insta to a much hotter one of me and he told I had to change it back & I did change it back to the one I had previously but idk I don’t like that I had to change it
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Anonymous 5w

Why did he tell you to change it? That’s weird and controlling

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Anonymous 5w

Why is he telling you what pfp you can have on instragram? Very Controlling

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

To be fair to him the pfp is kinda revealing hence why it’s hot but we’ve been in a situationship for like a year and I’ve had way worse/ more revealing pfps throughout that period and he’s never said anything about it but we recently started dating and now he’s saying something about it which is just rubbing me the wrong way bc you literally knew who I was/ what my pfps typically were before you got with me so why do you expect me to change for you 🫩 idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

How revealing is it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

It’s nothing worse than what I’ve had as my previous pfp it’s just a short shirt that accentuates my boobs & has my torso out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah he knew what he signed up for when he picked u💀 it’s weird to expect a girl to change her style just because ur dating her? You don’t owe him conservative dressing just loyalty and pfp isn’t being disloyal he’s being ridiculous and insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Yea I’m just kinda upset bc I never expected this form him especially bc he legit knew how I dress & stuff for a long while before we started dating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Absolutely valid to be upset! It’s not okay to expect you to change just because you’re with him it seems like he thinks he has some sort of ownership over you which is not okay!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Okay I think i might bring this up with him, thank you :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah it’s not that deep that’s a normal outfit??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Good luck girl! I hope everything goes well 🫂

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