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I feel like i am going in circles trying to heal myself when i just need someone to be consistent and i enjoy being around them
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Anonymous 5w

You need to be ok with yourself and help yourself. No one can fix you for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Hmm to an extent I agree, however healing attachment wounds alone is actually incredible hard if not impossible because there isn’t anyone to prove ur mind wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Not saying they will fix me, but someone consistent can help you fix yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

No for sure I just speak from experience cause I wanted to get into a relationship cause I thought then I’d be happy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m not saying a relationship. Could be a consistent friendship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Thank u for this cause I’ve been trying to explain that I damn near impossible to heal on your own, u will ultimately find a way to reason with all your shortcomings and probably form new one u need an anchor to call u out on ur bullshit. Someone said that is codependency but I really don’t think so, two people can be independent and still have their person as an anchor

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

It’s hard. How do I know I am healed/ok if I feel disconnected? I def have friends but like I don’t have a bestie/every day we speak or a partner where I can feel safe they won’t just disappear

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