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The Lindsay Clancy discourse is honestly making me want to quit dating. The amount of resentment, suspicion, and rage toward men feels exhausting. Social media has turned dating into a gender war
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Anonymous 12h

She killed her children. She’s a fucking monster criminal and anyone who supports her is insane. End of story.

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Anonymous 12h

I’m not sure how those two things are related Also if you understood misogyny you’d understand why women are careful around men and struggle to trust them

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Anonymous 3h

Hey dude let me be real with you man to man. This case is being massively blown up by a bunch of right wing internet grifters who want you to hate all women.

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Anonymous 8h

now hold up. marriage in the west started off as a process where daughters were sold off as property, yet you really think a product of the last ~25 years is to blame for the “gender war” component of hetero dating…?

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Anonymous 12h

I hear what you’re saying. I think what it is is both men and women are just sick of playing each others’ games and the other side has no idea what to do.

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Anonymous 4h

the views of a bunch of random ppl on tiktok doesnt reflect the majority of the world lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

So you’re going to defend crazy women who support an evil child murderer?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Not sure where you got that from, yikes! But addressing your point about women being suspicious of men: this is due to misogyny being such a massive trend amongst men

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

Being cautious is understandable. Treating every man like a potential misogynist before he’s done anything isn’t. That kind of resentment is exactly what I’m talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

But when women trust men easily, they get victim blamed when he turns out to be misogynistic/abusive. Men are constantly shaming women for “not knowing any better” and being “easy”, so the alternative is to be distrustful and let the good ones actually prove they’re good through their actions.. which isn’t hard to do if you’re social

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Living like everyone has to prove they’re not terrible sounds exhausting. Wish you luck with that strategy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Well the next time you’re asking why women are afraid of men or cautious around them, think back to this conversation. If you don’t want to make an effort to be anti-misogyny don’t be surprised when women don’t want to be around you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Disagreeing with you isn’t misogyny, and you don’t speak for all women. You’ve also completely lost the point of the post, which was about outright gender hatred and people excusing extreme violence, not women being cautious on dates

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I never said disagreeing with a woman is misogyny; misogyny is the cause of women being distrustful and sometimes hateful of men. That is just a fact. And yeah in my original comment I was wondering how Lindsay is even related to women not liking men and feeling suspicious of them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Maybe read some of the discourse around people defending her and trying to blame or frame her husband. That’s exactly why I brought the case up. I’m talking about gender resentment getting so extreme that people excuse horrific behavior and redirect blame onto men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6h

maybe people should stop playing games and just be real

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4h

That has absolutely nothing to do with the Lindsay Clancy discourse or anything the OP was talking about. This is why men are choosing the bear of your average tik tok mom and opting out of dating in this cesspool.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3h

They’re taking some crazy losers on TikTok and trying to convince you that’s representative of all women, because they want you to hate women

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3h

100% correct take. The people defending her are lunatics, but they are comparatively a tiny group of mentally unwell women online. Its nowhere near representative. If someone is telling you otherwise, they might have an agenda.

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Anonymous replying to -> justinian 3h

and obviously there is no shortage of hateful mentally unwell lunatic men either who defend male murderers doing awful things.

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