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So I just found out my friends ex had been cheating on her and all of our other (ex) mutual friends knew but didn’t tell her? Way to be grown up guys
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Anonymous 3w

staying out of relationships you aren’t involved in is grown up?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Idk about you but if my man cheated on me I’d want to know so I can either talk to him or leave him. You don’t cheat on someone you actually love, and if my friends aren’t loyal enough to tell me then they’re not real friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

having been the friend in other situations. lots of people aren’t gonna listen. it’s either not true or we clearly didn’t understand what was going on. we can all say what we’d want logically when we’re removed from the situation. but people aren’t rational in this context most of the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I mean that’s true i get your position, but everyone knew this friends dynamic and she was really just looking for a reason to be out of the relationship anyway (which is why they broke up eventually), so idk why everyone just kept it to themselves in that case

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