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Confessions 18w
One time my gf initiated sex and I went with it bc, duh, and I was having a great time until I noticed she had pigtails at the moment. And it lowkey made me feel icky bc i guess pigtails feel…kiddy?? Like I know ANYONE can have them but idk
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Anonymous 18w

I struggle w this a lot bc as a waitress we DO make more money when we capitalize on men’s creepiness and wear pigtails but do I really wanna be making that money if it promotes pervy ideas?

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Anonymous 18w

What the fuck is wrong with you

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Anonymous 18w

Good on you. I was going to fool around with a guy in his late 40’s and he specifically requested I wear a tank top and pigtails. I still feel disgusted even thinking about it and that was years ago.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

what do you mean? can you elaborate on that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Pedo panickers are just so lame. Idk who started it but it's engulfed society like wildfire. We now have situations like this where someone worries their attraction to their OWN partner is misplaced due to a particular hair style. We're finished.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

no it’s not that i was worried about being a pedo, i know im not. it’s that the pigtails felt childish and reminded me of kids and turned me off. gave me “the ick” if you will

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

I think he’s more just saying he finds the look unattractive. Like if my girlfriend were to wear a schoolgirl outfit it would be a turnoff for me, this is just like a toned down version of that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

1 missed the point so much lmao. OP is just a non pedo just the thought of pigtails which is a classic girl hairstyle turned him off. Good on you OP. I would just let her know that so you both can figure it out together. Hopefully she’s nothing like 1 and misses the point

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

Im with you. Geezus these people act ridiculous. Plenty of grown women have pigtails. Assuming that all men who like it are pedos is one hell of a paranoid stretch. Society is ridiculous rn.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

He specifically said it gave him the “kiddy” vibe. To me that insinuates he sees that as borderline pedo. How people are associating any hairstyle with pedo is beyond me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18w

It gets associated with pedos because it’s incredibly common for the style to be used to make the wearer look younger as children and teenagers are the more common people to wear them in general. Like #5 said, waitresses tend to make more on tips when they wear certain hairstyles that make them seem younger. You can thank old creeps for warping the way it’s viewed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18w

Real bro, fuckin gestapo after me these days bc l'm unconvinced by the whole milf/cougar craze and am into actually young/pretty girls

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