Confessions on Sidechat | Hot take but we make avoidants seem evil but I think anxiously attached people are 10x worse. As someone who is neither but has dated both I felt a million times worse with the anxiously attached

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Confessions 14h

Hot take but we make avoidants seem evil but I think anxiously attached people are 10x worse. As someone who is neither but has dated both I felt a million times worse with the anxiously attached

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Anonymous 14h

We’re just avoidant because we’re used to being equally avoided. We gotta work on that, but at least we’re not clingy 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 14h

i used to be anxious and now i’m avoidant and i made people 1000% more miserable when i was anxious 😭 i feel so bad for my ex fr

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Anonymous

#1 14h

Both sides need to work on it it’s a problem😭 avoidants need to work on their communication anxious attached people need to work on their codependency

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