Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

My friend cheated on her bf and told this random guy about it and he got so mad. Meanwhile she cheated because her bf was abusive and wouldn’t let her leave and she had the guy help her. The man she told started flipping out calling her a disease and getting rilled up over it like bro it doesn’t affect you

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Anonymous OP 1d

Ok yeah but like what made the cheating necessary

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

Because she told her bf that she was done with him and he just said no you aren’t ever breaking up with me and she broke up with him multiple times he just wouldn’t allow it and showed up to her house multiple times

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

So she just moved on as he wouldn’t let her leave

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

But even if it was normal cheating it only affects the person who got cheated on it doesn’t matter

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yeah but I wouldn’t want to be friends with a cheater

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

Oh no ofc but she didn’t really cheat she broke up with him and he just said no. But it’s nothing to get mad over it’s just the kinda thing at least for you “oh we don’t share the same morals not for me” not worth getting super angry being like how dare u

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Anonymous OP 1d

Well yeah but I’m talking in the context of someone just cheating for no reason now like if I’m talking to someone randomly and they tell me that I’m like ew I don’t like you as a person fundamentally

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Anonymous OP 1d

Obviously it doesn’t affect him, but it could show that he hates the concept of cheating and let his temper respond instead. Yeah I would be mad too, but my mind is immediately gonna ask what happened. So it’s valid to be mad at somebody for something like that, but he fumbled by immediately flipping out with mean names. He should’ve handled himself better

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Anonymous #2 1d

I don’t think it’s necessarily valid to be mad at a stranger at a situation that doesn’t affect you. If you hear someone did something you don’t like but you don’t know them just avoid them not verbally harass

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

Which is totally fair I just think it’s crazy to yell at someone cause of it

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Anonymous OP 1d

Ok let’s go to the extreme, say you were talking to someone and they tell you they killed some random person in cold blood just for fun, and never went to jail for it. Would you be mad?

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

I wouldn’t be mad I would just be freaked out and avoid them

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Anonymous OP 1d

I don’t get mad at things caused by other people that I cannot control it’s a waste of energy imo

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Anonymous OP 1d

Off topic, how do you feel about things like universal pre-k and raising minimum wage?

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

Why are we taking it this as far as murder and minimum wage lmao I was talking about something trivial.

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Anonymous OP 1d

I think mad was probably not the best word to use. I’d say disappointed would be a better term. That was my fault. I guess more like a stern disappointment?

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Anonymous OP 1d

I was just asking you a question, no “taking it far”

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Anonymous #2 1d

That’s understandable! I think it’s reasonable to have a bit of a reaction but I think it’s silly to let actions of someone else deeply affect you if they don’t relate to you in anyway yk?

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

I choose not to engage because that was not the point of the post and I won’t have my words twisted haha

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yes. They’re a stranger to me, so I have literally nothing to lose by being brutally honest. But I wouldn’t hold it over their head after the conversation is over

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Anonymous OP 1d

I’m not twisting your words I’m just curious how your logic works so I’m asking questions about it

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Anonymous #2 1d

Completely agree!

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

I’m not saying u are I’m just not going to engage in it not sure what pre k has to do with it i genuinely don’t understand what the question is

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Anonymous OP 1d

So glad we’re on the same page <3

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Anonymous OP 1d

Do you know what off topic means? It means it doesn’t have anything to do with it. That’s why I said it before I asked you about it

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