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Confessions 13h
Craving a relationship so bad, but not the man I want to be yet, don’t want to give a girl something that’s not the best me, but also the emptiness just kills me inside, i don’t know what to don
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Anonymous 13h

You can work on yourself and date at the same time

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Anonymous 13h

You can be depressed and love and still struggle. This notion that you have to be perfect is unrealistic and it’s bullshit tbh

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Anonymous 13h

I totally know what you mean dude I’ve felt like that for a decade at times

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

I get what you mean, but it’s hard finding someone that’s in it for the long run, and well honestly, I’m scared of not being enough?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Look I’ve been dating my bf for 2 years now, him and I have both fucked up, a lot in our relationship. But we’re learning and trying to be better. There’s always gonna be issues, no one will ever be truly perfect for you and you will never be truly perfect for them. You compromise and constantly work on yourself anyway, so why not do it together too?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

I understand, thank you for your detailed reply, il try, but I guess the next step is finding someone, most likely going to be the hard part?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Yeah, idk if kills me up inside some nights

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Anonymous replying to -> qtieee 13h

Not to be perfect, just in a better position, as a soft dom, idk it’s like I wanna ensure they don’t have to worry about anything financially and giving them a decent life, idk, does that make sense?

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Anonymous 13h

Yeah, that makes sense, I wouldn’t say I shut myself off but definitely don’t go out of my way to put myself out there

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