Confessions on Sidechat | maybe because i’m a woman so im not in on it but…what’s the deal with men being so angry about the idea of buttplay?😭 like gay sex etc. what’s so heinous about it?

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Confessions 1d

maybe because i’m a woman so im not in on it but…what’s the deal with men being so angry about the idea of buttplay?😭 like gay sex etc. what’s so heinous about it?

Anonymous 1d

I’m a girl and the reason why I’m so against it (for myself idc what other people do) is just cause I find it gross and pooping even hurts for me so I don’t want to even imagine that typa pain with that but I’m not gonna stop anyone else from it to

Anonymous 1d

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Anonymous

#2 1d

Yeah that’s very valid I agree

Anonymous

#2 1d

idk i don’t think there would be pain especially if they’re using lube of some sort

Anonymous

#3 1d

elaborate?

Anonymous 1d

douching is a thing

Anonymous

OP 1d

For me there would be even pooping hurts and that’s natural. Plus you really shouldn’t put anything up there in the first place it’s not good for u but to each their own

Anonymous

OP 1d

I consider the post to be off topic. Not really a confession.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Literally has the prostate which is a high sensitive spot for both men and women and bring immense pleasure. By your logic sex in general is not good for you.

Anonymous

#5 1d

I’m talking about anal?? I don’t have to do that lmao I like sex it’s just that that would be painful I’m entitled to my choice leave me alone

Anonymous

#2 1d

You don’t get to say “it’s not good for you” it’s fucking stupid because by this logic sex in general is not good for you. It Carries a lot of the exact same risks. I don’t care what you do. Just get your facts right.

Anonymous

#5 1d

I do have my facts right anal comes with certain risks and damages with excessive use that regular sex doesn’t have look it up lmao it damages ur rectum it’s medical

Anonymous

#2 1d

you should try being a lesbian then, they have the lowest sex-related health risks since that’s what you’re worried about!

Anonymous

#2 1d

But again it is up to the person if they wanna take that risk same like having raw sex with a stranger could expose you to STDs. Everything has its risk just depends if you wanna take it or not 🤷‍♀️

Anonymous

#2 1d

Regular sex comes with the same risks. You’re not gonna get hurt if you take precautions and do things correctly. Like going slow, and using lube, and being gentle to start. Wear protection if you need it. Or just get tested frequently and only bed with people who also get tested and have proof.

Anonymous

#6 1d

it’s not the health risks I’m worried about lol I’m just saying that’s probably a factor for some people. I refuse to do anal because it would be painful for me end of story. Wasn’t born lesbian sexuality isn’t a choice btw

Anonymous

#5 1d

Well then if people wanna do that they can!! Both are risky I said that I personally won’t do it and trying to make someone is giving rapey and it’s werid asf lmao

Anonymous

#2 1d

I’m bi. It is for me 😂 but I’m only oral bi.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Yall do what u want I do what I want idgaf everything comes with risks I was just pointing it out and it’s true. if u wanna have anal so bad do it!!

Anonymous

#2 1d

Nobody is making you. I was annoyed with you saying “oh that doesn’t go there, it’s bad for you” sex in general by this standard is bad for you. Anal or not.

Anonymous

#2 1d

You can tear the uterus lining just like the anus lining. The same STDs can be caught from both types of sexual intercourse. If you’re one is bad and the other isn’t the FACTS on both disagree with you. It’s about precautions and personal health and hygiene.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Your first comment said you wouldn’t stop anyone else from doing it. Then you call it “not good for you” a comment later so then you would stop people from doing it because you just said it’s not supposed to be done it’s not good for you. So which is it?

Anonymous

#5 1d

Anal has more risks related to STDs you can look it up. Both can happen ofc but it’s more common it has more infection related risks plus it doesn’t naturally lubricate lol it doesn’t go there but you could technically still use the it doesn’t go there logic with oral aswell but like I said do what u want either way

Anonymous

#5 1d

Am I physically stopping people from doing it or telling people they can’t? No I’m saying do what you want doesn’t make it not bad for you. I drink it’s not good for me people still do what they want I’m not gonna tell someone not to drink even though it’s bad for you. Who is it stopping?? No one like I said have it lmao still not good for you

Anonymous

#2 1d

I think you should rethink saying what should and shouldn’t go where and what is and isn’t bad for you If you’re gonna go with the stance of “do what you want”

Anonymous

#5 1d

Bro go have anal sex I don’t give a fuck I was just giving my reason WHY It has more risks related to it that’s why I PERSONALLY don’t get over it it’s a fact can’t debate facts don’t be emotional

Anonymous

#5 1d

Because it’s not meant to go there but like I said you could apply it to other things that people do regularlly aswell. What I think shouldn’t matter to you only to me do what you want!! I do what I want I’ll phrase things the exact way I want too

Anonymous

#2 1d

I don’t know where you are getting that anal and vaginal have a different rate for stds, the only think i can see that anal can give you is a higher rate for infections such as a uti due to fecal matter in the urethra but if it’s well cleaned before then i see no issue

Anonymous

#7 1d

also have you never heard of a vaginal collapsed wall before? same thing you can do for anal can also happen vaginally like it all depends how much care you put into it but regardless if you just jam something in either then it’s bound to fuck you up