
A hand. I don’t think anyone said anything like that but this doesn’t sound like something that’s a sudden new thing recently or something you’ve even been trying to move on from 🐸☕️ but that’s none of my business… Except for having to listen to it everyday on here and block it all over again
If you need a pro and con list to be with your partner that’s a major issue no context makes that ok. There’s a reason it’s for better and worse, if you need to “weigh” things out then you don’t respect and love your partner the way you think you do. OP you are worth more find someone that will gladly take on any “cons” for the opportunity to be with you
To be really honest I work with people like this every day. I work in detox and mental health crisis centers and the amount of supportive partners that come in would probably surprise you. There’s someone out there for everyone. I’m saying find that person that circumstances don’t matter for the opportunity to be with you.