Anonymous #2 4w

The Giver ahh statement (great book btw)

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Anonymous #5 4w

what a king

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Anonymous #6 4w

i’m a woman but thanks

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Anonymous #7 4w

as he should

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Anonymous #4 4w

also gotta have a patient partner... I’ve been dedicated to giving her that time and she gives up bc it didn’t happen fast enough for her liking.

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Anonymous #8 4w

I got something to tell you you're not gonna like to hear my guy….

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Anonymous #11 4w

rubbing is gonna be the best way but if you add some fingers while rubbing or eating out that would definitely help. curl them up slightly

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Anonymous #11 4w

Some girls like some things while some girls like others, what works for 1 won't work for them all. Literally just communicate and ask her what she gets off on and BINGO! Now you know 👍

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Anonymous #4 4w

yeah this too lmao

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Anonymous OP 4w

HA

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Anonymous #13 4w

what does race have to do with anything?

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Anonymous #14 4w

Everyone knows queens are harder to please than white girls

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Anonymous #8 4w

honestly my bf is the same way but sometimes he puts too much pressure on “wanting to make me cum” and it leaves me anxious or worried about how long it takes me to esp because itll be after sex/ after hes cum and im already kinda out of the mood.

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Anonymous #3 4w

This book changed my life ahh statement

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Anonymous #19 4w

i don’t think that’s true, so many men just can’t make a girl cum

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Anonymous #14 4w

disagree: I’ll take my time to make any woman cum — even if it takes 30min. unless I just want my own nut.

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Anonymous #11 4w

It’s just a lot of communication, and discovering what your partner likes and dislikes then after that it will be very easy

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Anonymous #23 4w

Yea if you are 6’5, make over 100,000 a year, drive a million dollar car and live in a million dollar house, own a business, know how to weld, cook, are a mechanic, have your pilot license, sell insurance, hit the lottery, can do a back flip, was born in the 1920s, has 4 dogs and 9 cats, and is allergic to horse hair THEN you can make them cum. 1/100,000,000 chance of it then

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Anonymous #2 4w

Is there a way to get her to cum while I’m inside or is it only rubbing after? I wanna make her feel good while I do but I js dk how to while I’m inside

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Anonymous #29 4w

Nigga watttttttt….. “angle of penetration is excellent” you have to like it in the ass

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Anonymous #28 4w

Ahem “nigga” you just told me that you have both a small unit and have no clue where the g-spot is. Way to break the stereotype I guess. I’m just assuming you’re black btw. I’m not so reread that in an especially white tone please.

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Anonymous #3 4w

What’s this now? 👀

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Anonymous #4 4w

But what if u nut in like 30 seconds

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Anonymous #32 4w

Learn not to

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Anonymous #32 4w

you have a mouth and hand

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Anonymous #32 4w

Use your hands, your mouth, a toy, anything capable of stimulation that your partner is comfortable and willing to do

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Anonymous #28 4w

just say you’re one of the ones who can’t make a girl cum and go with this mindset lmaooo

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Anonymous #33 4w

Lol those that think it’s a mindset usually live the sad reality of not having the ability. Sorry bub

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Anonymous #29 4w

?? i was responding to 28 implying it’s gay to know or care about the angle of penetration (also the homophobia cause who gaf if someone likes taking it up the ass) and saying they’re lame for thinking that way. did i misinterpret something LOL

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Anonymous #33 4w

lol nope my bad. Don’t Yik yak and drive 😆

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Anonymous #29 4w

Yik yik and driving is insane lol

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Anonymous #9 4w

Yeah but at least I’ve been sober for a few years now so still a lot safer lmfao

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Anonymous #11 4w

Once you get comfortable with her, ask her to get herself off and watch what she does, hand, toy, whatever, then …do that exactly and build off it

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Anonymous #24 4w

king

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Anonymous #31 4w

Ever read the book The Giver?

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Anonymous #18 4w

Excellent piece of literature

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Anonymous #17 4w

This is why I always get eaten out before I have sex with someone

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Anonymous #38 4w

Before, after, and in between 👌 (with a little extra on the side 😂)

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Anonymous #11 4w

Maybe. If she can ride you exposing her clit, foreplay is long and sensual, the ride is good (ask her) and you know how to meet her pussy you can both get off. It's crazy good when it happens. Or, reverse cowgirl ( my favorite ) and he has gotten me ready. Remember it's not porn it's real women.

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Anonymous #14 4w

They need to read, watch porn made for women and listen.

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Anonymous #39 4w

Porn is fake tho

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Anonymous #30 4w

So you think ...

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Anonymous #39 4w

How many women fake it to get it over with? Like when it goes on and on and he's saying stupid shit like "did you cum baby"? And men, 99% of you would have NO idea we fake it.

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Anonymous #9 4w

or if you're just a genuine person being yourself, making personal connections with people who like you, and effectively communicating with them; maybe making fun of them like that wont help your odds either

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Anonymous #39 4w

Definitely a lot of people fake, it has happened to me as a young lad 😂. I'd argue that we can tell though, at least IME it ain't hard to tell (16 year old me was devastated lol)

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Anonymous #39 4w

when ur whole body tenses up and u squeeze me like ur having a baby and moaninh like u got shot ya i do think. let alone seeing the cream on my duck

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Anonymous #30 4w

yeah not everyone creams and that shit is easy to fake

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18 years ago for me 🥺🥺🥺

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Anonymous #39 4w

Is there a way in reverse cowgirl to get us to finish at the same time? And what if she likes being on the bottom, is there a way I can get her to finish while I’m on top?

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Anonymous #1 4w

ten hours for me but same

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Anonymous #9 4w

It’s okay to admit you don’t know how to pleasure a woman

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Anonymous #11 4w

You'll never be exactly in sync but you'll be damn close if you pay attention. Women have particular bodily reactions before they orgasm. Some grab their breasts, some close their eyes, some make sounds, some shudder, some go completely still while you keep moving. Whatever you do, do NOT stop what you're doing and/ or move from where you are because she's close but if she moves your head keep doing the same thing and let her manipulate you a bit. Again if she's on the bottom the foreplay

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Anonymous #39 4w

Is essential. Men and women have sensitive sexually stimulating areas of their bodies from their heads to their toes. My man loves nipple sucking and he's not alone. Talk to one another, be open but if you can't you're probably not ready to be intimate.

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Anonymous #11 4w

haven’t taken dick before but at least for me personally what i’ve noticed from masturbating is penetration + vibrator on the clit can make for INCREDIBLY powerful orgasms, just depends on how the penetrative object is angled/what parts it’s stimulating. once you’re hitting the sweet spot don’t change anything and just keep stroking like that 👍

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Anonymous #33 4w

obviously everyone is different though and even the same person will want/need something different to reach orgasm from day to day so yeah it all goes back to communicate with your partner, be open and receptive to them (and this should be mutual!!). even just that can be a serious turn on 😎

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Anonymous #39 4w

Been dating her for 2 years and can get her there but always wanna see what I can improve on. The main thing for me is I js don’t wanna be the only one feeling great I wanna make sure she is too. If I can’t finish her while I’m inside would you say finish her before we do it? Or pull out and then directly after finish her?

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Anonymous #33 4w

Would you say I should bring up if she wants to see if the vibrator + penetration is a good option? If it’s gonna make her feel good I’d for sure be open to it I just want her to be comfy yk

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Anonymous #11 4w

absolutely, i don’t see why not!! maybe i’m assuming wrong but since you said you’ve been dating for two years it sounds like she doesn’t use one already which i’m a bit surprised about LOL. again everyone’s different but vibrators tend to be biiiiiig hits. great fun regardless of what genitalia you have.

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Anonymous #33 4w

Nope she’s never used one in general so that’s why I’m a little nervous to bring it up but I for sure feel like it’s worth a shot if it’s gonna make her feel good :)

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Anonymous #11 4w

yeah and it doesn’t have to be anything crazy to start at all—in fact, simpler is better if it’s her or your first time using these things. i’ve been relying on this one $20-$25 bullet vibrator from cvs for years now (have had to replace it after a time ofc but lol). it is small, chargeable, built specifically for clitoral stimulation, and has multiple intensity/pattern settings that you can toggle through with just a press of a button

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Anonymous #33 4w

i feel like a sponsored ad LMFAO it’s just been treating me good 😭

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Anonymous #33 4w

Thank you! I’ll for sure bring it up and see if she’s open to it 🙏

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Anonymous #11 4w

i wish y’all a very enjoyable time 😌

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Anonymous #3 4w

unc

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Anonymous #19 4w

ok, but can u speak for all men?

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Anonymous #5 4w

The king🤝

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Anonymous #18 4w

Immensely so, yes

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Anonymous #4 4w

Idk bro based on what I read.. even if I do everything right it’s still all gonna be my fault… I think I’ll stick to masturbation..

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Anonymous #11 4w

All of the above. Move about, play, tease, relax, sometimes she'll orgasm and sometimes not but that doesn't mean she's not enjoying having sex. The goal is to be intimate and have fun! And by all means the fun can begin hours before you have sex. A hand up my skirt on an elevator, telling my man as we arrived at a dinner party recently, that was quite upscale, that I wasn't wearing panties made for an amazing night from ringing the doorbell to finally getting to his flat after.

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Anonymous #8 4w

yeah stick to ur hand pal

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Anonymous #41 4w

men don’t deserve women.

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Anonymous #8 4w

You enjoy that 👍

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Anonymous #10 4w

And nobody has said anything yet. 100 answers even irl and nobody can say it. Deadass just makes the girl look indecisive and picky every time. I genuinely want to know for betterment. Not so I can be in the dark outside of the “professional fuckers ring”.

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Anonymous #8 4w

i kinda responded earlier but an actual answer is just to ask and be sure she’s in the mood, dont make it feel forced or get upset if its taking long and be communicative. “not happening fast enough for her” ask if there are faster ways for her to or if there is any improvement you could try. people generally want to cum, it can just be anxiety inducing if its taking to long or if your partner seems out of it and it leads to a lot of people just finishing themselves. idk lmk if that helped

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Anonymous #8 4w

but as for indecisive and picky idk what u mean, no ones picky for wanting to cum?

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Anonymous #17 4w

I guess I just mean that I need the communication. I know how to read body language, but a stiff body with no expression and hardly any communication makes it rather hard.. and it takes longer than 1-3 minutes to relax and get going. Maybe I’ve had partners who are very anxious? Either way, thanks for the insight. Maybe it’s just not the right partner yet😎😕😎

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Anonymous #3 4w

Nope :3

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Anonymous #31 4w

who set that system up

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Anonymous #8 4w

yah stiff body, no communication, stuff like that and i immediately assume the person isnt into it so i get where you’re coming from. for me talking and those small cues are what make sex enjoyable and not awkward

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Anonymous #30 4w

bro most girls fake orgasms it’s just how things work, idk if any guy is 100% successful tbh unless they actually listen and know what they’re doing, and a lot of women don’t cum from just penetration

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Anonymous #6 4w

how do u know fs tho? so many girls fake it

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Anonymous #28 4w

a lot of women don’t cum from just penetration so stamina doesn’t have much to do with it lol

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Anonymous #11 4w

Rubbing sounds like it would hurt. Is there a softer way you do it? Direct contact with a clitoris can be really uncomfortable and stimulation with your tongue, if she likes it, is much better for a lot of women. And PLEASE men do not spit on a woman's genitalia. That's done in porn because the woman hasn't been lubricated naturally via foreplay. You should not need any lube unless you're doing anal. And some women, not many, enjoy that.

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Anonymous #1 4w

I think it speaks to the lack of actual sex education we get. I should write a book. No one talks about it in any real sense and they should.

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Anonymous #14 4w

not to out myself but i have more then 30 bodies and i’ve been at this since i was 13 im 20 ik how to make a girl cum

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Anonymous #30 4w

so u were groomed?

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Anonymous #30 4w

also if u have 30 bodies since 13 you def do not have a 100% success rate dude hate to say it

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Anonymous #14 4w

no fucking shit last 3-4 years def

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Anonymous #35 4w

Gay men have almost zero orgasm gap so it’s not the men

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Anonymous #45 4w

thats because gay men know what makes men cum bc they’re men

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Anonymous #14 4w

Worst handjob I ever got was from a dude so that’s a fucking lie

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Anonymous #14 4w

no, women just suck at sex

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Anonymous #43 4w

No, just the women you’ve been with 💖

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Anonymous #35 4w

thats some insane cope

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Anonymous #46 4w

Even solo?!?!

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Anonymous #44 4w

men??? 😭

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Anonymous #13 4w

maybe i’m tweaking but is this a compliment or insult? 🧍🏾‍♀️

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Anonymous #46 4w

no same dw

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Anonymous #30 4w

13 is crazy

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Anonymous #30 4w

ok well u did say you were 100% successful u realize that, lock in man and dont lie

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Anonymous #8 4w

I didn't realize you wanted to actually hear my point, but I am happy to share. If she gives up on it for taking too long it means she wasn't really enjoying what you were doing. If you figure out what she likes and do it proper she will be along for the ride, even if it takes a while, she'll be enjoying it too much to 'give up'. Try some new things, talk to her about it, and practice. And don't sweat it, it's supposed to be fun not stressfully trying to achieve a goal.

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Anonymous #8 4w

Partner anxiety is a great point but the key to overcoming that is becoming comfortable with one another over time. If you're right for each other it will be an enjoyable process where you both grow together. I was just being funny in my original post but I am happy to share advice, and I hope you and your partner learn and grow together to achieve something beautiful you've never experienced before 🫡

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Anonymous #17 4w

It can also mean she's been sexually assaulted previously. It happens to more women than you can fathom. Or, it can be connected to her religious upbringing and being sheltered. Have a conversation.

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Anonymous #4 4w

Majority of yal play with enormous, top-notch gadgets and have had 40-50 partners Of course it’s going to be hard to make yal finish Why most men don’t care to pls you all, just get our nut and lay down and watch espn

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Anonymous #39 4w

Yeah my original point with all this “have a conversation” stuff is that if she doesn’t want to talk about what she wants to receive, then I cant give it and she can’t receive it. I will present the environment to be comfy and welcome, but I can’t change the person. We’ve got a really lost generation and I genuinely cannot be a sex therapist for every single partner in my life, I don’t have the life span to teach people how to talk. I’ll wait for a mature partner who wants to communicate.

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Anonymous #8 4w

Do you have so many partners that it would be difficult? Maturity comes from conversations in my opinion. If you're with a woman who doesn't want to share, by all means move on, but don't cut yourself off until the person who feels totally open comes along. And yes, the generation is lost I agree. Blame it on politicians who want us kept in the dark, lessen our contraceptive and healthcare accessibility, apathy and "Christians" being in charge.

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