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Confessions 12w
Hot take but just because you hear about other people hooking up or doing FWB doesn’t mean you have to do it too. Not everyone has to enjoy casual sex and that’s okay.
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Anonymous 12w

This is so important to realize. I discovered a year and a half ago that casual sex just isn’t for me. I know some people really enjoy it, and I’m happy for them, but I wasn’t wired that way.

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Anonymous 12w

casual sex is gross

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Anonymous 12w

I’ve tried it, not really a fan either. Best experiences I’ve ever had is with gf’s. Not to say there’s anything wrong with hooking up, there isn’t. It’s just not for everyone

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Anonymous 12w

Younger me needed to hear this sooner

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Anonymous 12w

Yeah I think I might be demisexual because literally there is no one I would want to fuck without a relationship behind it, this whole casual sex thing leaves me feeling so confused bc I just don’t get it

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Anonymous 12w

Thank you twin. I always felt like i was weird when i didn’t want to do things like that

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Anonymous 12w

Well I wouldn’t mind casual sex but I’d rather actually have a relationship to the person first

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Anonymous 12w

Fr just cus your friend is doing something doesn’t mean you have to. People enjoy sex differently

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Anonymous 12w

I need it, I want more bodies but I’m not lucky like that

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Anonymous 12w

Fair but sometimes some sex even if it’s not your preferred type of sex is better than none

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Anonymous 12w

nah i want it anyway

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Anonymous 12w

i just feel like all these posts are made by people that desperately want to have sex but can’t

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Anonymous 12w

Im in enemy territory… whats wrong with getting drunk on the weekend and spending that time with them and having casual sex…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Wouldn’t that be a FWB then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Yeah I’m definitely not built for it. There has to be more connection surrounding the sex for me to enjoy it. I still feel bad getting ghosted after sleeping with someone on the 3rd date, couldn’t imagine doing a hookup knowing I can’t care or get attached to the person from the jump.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

No one said it was wrong to do if you enjoy doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Yuuuuup that’s me! It’s not even me trying to be a prude—I literally just cannot make myself get turned on by someone I don’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Same I think I’m demisexual too, or at least somewhere on the ace spectrum cause ain’t no way people do that so carefree

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

To you and me. And that’s okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

it’s pretty instinctual to want to fuck someone you find attractive. yall are thinking about it too much. some weird internalized shame or smth going on here

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 12w

Yeah, gross isn’t really the right word for me. It just isn’t fulfilling

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

well gross is the right word for me🤣🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 12w

Same. For me, it’s definitely part of the reason I “gave up” my virginity so soon. I really wish I had waited to be sexually active, but my closest friend in high school at the time was and it seemed like everyone else I knew of was too, so I just “went with it.” 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

So why are you here then

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 12w

Orrrr some people don’t care for sex and place it on a pedestal as much as you do. Just a thought

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12w

to troll

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Frl because you get to learn their body and know what they like so it’s js so much more enjoyable

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