Anonymous #1 1d

💅

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Anonymous #2 1d

If it’s an organic part of the relationship that’s cool, no issue with that. It’s picking a partner the way you’d pick a clothing item that bothers me

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Anonymous stairs_from_the_abyss 1d

That’s fair, but I sure they didn’t mean it that way. Maybe if they said they needed a specific type of man for a specific costume. But I feel like it’s normal to want to find someone whose willing to do those extra fun things

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Anonymous #3 1d

Tf you mean you people

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Anonymous stairs_from_the_abyss 1d

you took her post in the most bad faith way possible and you’re acting like she said something wrong. it’s sooooo normal to want a partner to do cute things like this with. you’re just looking for something to get mad at

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Anonymous #3 1d

Seems like we might be projecting here. Why don’t we do some grounding exercises?

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Anonymous stairs_from_the_abyss 1d

you saw someone say they want to match costumes with their partner and you assumed she’s treating them as an accessory. and you want to talk to me about projection? really?

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Anonymous #3 1d

Just seems like you’re having some rather large feelings. If she had a partner that she wanted to coordinate with I wouldn’t gaf. But she doesn’t. She wants *someone* to dress up. The same way it would be dehumanizing if a man wanted to fuck *someone*, but loving if he wants to fuck *the love of his life*.

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Anonymous stairs_from_the_abyss 1d

right bc fucking and dressing up for halloween are totally the same. it’d be like a guy saying he wants to wear matching jerseys to a game with his gf. like idk how else to explain it it’s simply not weird to think about cute scenarios with your future partner

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Anonymous #3 1d

Alright well this has been productive. Don’t try to explain it further, I worry you’ll hurt us both in your confusion

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Anonymous stairs_from_the_abyss 1d

Sorry OP but youre the weirdo here, #3 is right

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Anonymous stairs_from_the_abyss 1d

Obviously OOP just means they want a partner they can do cute and fun things with, not that they view men as disposable ken dolls to control. any reasonable person would interpret the former

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Anonymous #4 1d

Simply adding anonymous voices telling me I’m wrong without actually engaging isn’t going to convince me you goofballs 😂

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Anonymous stairs_from_the_abyss 1d

lmfao #3 was so right, u people can’t do anything. Getting yourself triggered over an innocent post where someone is hoping for a fun Halloween with a partner is CRAZYYYYY 🤣🤣🤣🤣 no objectification or accessory making to be seen at all. It’s not like they gonna date someone just for a fuckin costume I’m cryinggg

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Anonymous #6 22h

I have yet to see any of you goofballs actually engage in any kind of meaningful way. If this is how you people think, several things about the world make more sense to me

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Anonymous stairs_from_the_abyss 18h

Then you have somehow missed the point when it has been described to you in multiple different ways. That looks pretty bad on your part ngl. And now u just responding with a bunch of nonsense and not even addressing the point at all 🥀💀 come on dude

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