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I think I hate sex. I hate that I want it. I hate that it consumes my mind. I hate that I don’t know how to fix it.
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Anonymous 14h

Remove porn from your life if you haven’t already. Stop exposing yourself to horny posting too, such as yikyak, reddit, TikTok, etc.

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Anonymous 12h

You need a better reward system, when you start thinking about porn immediately replace it with someone else positive. You’ll eventually wean yourself off and will have a better relationship with it. For sex, don’t just agree with anyone to hook up with. Get to know them first or set boundaries where you wait to have sex until you meet certain standards or goals.

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Anonymous 9h

I’m taking you want it

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Anonymous 9h

Its all about moderation. Its okay to be horny 100%. Its okay to want sex. Going cold turkey would be hard. But definitely dont be too hard on yourself. 🙏🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

So essentially all social media. Also hard to stop watching porn when you don’t ever have sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Don’t disable social media entirely. Just redirect yourself away from the parts that trigger an urge to watch porn. Most of the listed apps have algorithms you can manipulate. They subtly shift towards sexual content to make them more addictive, but if you constantly mark these things as “not interested” then it helps a little bit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

Hard not to

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

Agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

But need a release

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

Why

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6h

Definitely great advice but for the sex one that would work if the opportunity for sex happened consistently or a decent amount

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