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Bf told me he wanted a 3 sum & that turned me off so much, that shit lowkey killed my feelings for him 🤦‍♀️
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Anonymous 12w

he probably wants MFF, so you should counter play and ask him if you can do MFM and then see what he says because most likely he will shut the fuck up

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Anonymous 12w

Did u guys break up yet

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Anonymous 12w

Lame

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Anonymous 12w

God forbid a guy wants to communicate a desire with his partner.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

God forbid a girl is turned off by his sexual desires 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Turned off ≠ killing feelings for him. If u cant handle a difficult discussion with honesty then perhaps u aren’t ready for a relationship . Be single and let bro find his threesome

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I’ll gladly be single lol. & both things can be true at once! let him go do that 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

You’re assuming , we don’t know if he wouldn’t allow a 3some with another guy . This is why it’s important to have a discussion and talk about needs and wants and compromises

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Idec abt the actual problem im js nosey.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

He wants one with a girl 🤦‍♀️ he said he’s okay with another guy if he gets his with a girl. So he’s okay with seeing me get fked & fking someone else. Either way it’s a mess & a joke.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

lol exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

If he’s only allowing it so he can fk a woman that doesn’t make it any better. I do not have a desire to sleep with another man.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I can’t say why he’s “only allowing it”. I’m just addressing ppl saying he wouldn’t do it roles reversed. I think that’s fair of him. If you don’t want to that’s definitely fine as well ! I just think talking to your partner is the most important thing in relationships. I also don’t think going 5/10/20 years together with someone and never wanting the touch of someone else is realistic. You should be allowed to voice the complexities around that in a safe environment.

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