Anonymous #1 19h

I’ve heard it for bottom surgery and I’d assume that’s more of a “Oh shit really?” Situation rather than a “….Wait-“ Situation if you were intimate. Yk 🤣

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Anonymous OP 18h

often people don’t care if there’s been surgery and think it’s “gross” no matter what

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Anonymous #1 18h

Yea that might be hitting transphobia territory. Especially if you can’t even tell ngl But regardless sleep with whoever you want it legit doesn’t matter. There’s always gonna be SOMEONE that wants to sleep with you. Just like how there’s always gonna be someone romantically attracted to you.

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Anonymous #2 17h

Well people always have the choice to pursue what makes them happy. But being trans itself isn’t a choice, it’s just the choice to follow through and express it. Its like how you don’t choose your sexuality but you CHOOSE if you want to accept and express yourself. You can’t choose to be a certain race but you definitely have the choice if you want to embrace it. Same with sex etc

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Anonymous OP 17h

yes that’s what I meant 100% just didn’t know the right words to say it. either way, I don’t think people persecuted for being trans or expressing it and I don’t think people should be persecuted for not wanting to be associated with a trans person , so long as they’re not disrespectful to harmful to anyone

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Anonymous #2 17h

Yeah that’s what I meant too lol. Neither should be bitched out and attacked just because they aren’t attracted to someone. But it’s an alarming amount of folks that take that as a personal attack rather than literal sexuality at work. Ofc sexuality isn’t a spectrum so you can be into anyone with whatever parts at any time. But people that are certain they DONT like certain body parts have the right to not be into it Idk why that’s so weird to people

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Anonymous OP 17h

100%!

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Anonymous #3 17h

but if there’s no noticeable physical difference why not

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Anonymous #1 17h

because there is a difference. i don’t want to date someone that was born a girl it’s just that simple lol

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Anonymous #1 17h

I think anyone has a right to make that choice without having to explain it. there are plenty of people who are okay with being in a relationship with a trans person, why focus on the ones who aren’t okay with it

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Anonymous #3 17h

I don’t think it’s transphobic unless you literally can’t tell. Or if you’re attracted to both anyway then I’d view it as more transphobic if anything because them being trans is the only issue. But gender doesn’t equal sex. They are a man or woman, but that doesn’t mean their sex changes unless they do stuff to change it like hormone stuff, top surgery, etc. Their body doesn’t take away that they ARE a man/woman, but we can’t pretend a partner can’t care if they are into a certain sex.

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Anonymous #2 17h

because that’s the literal prompt of the question?? why don’t trans people understand why people may not be attracted to trans people. i explained why for me lol

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Anonymous #4 15h

Yeah I don’t like labeling myself personally but technically I’m pansexual. Don’t want kids at ALL. But I’m in general still figuring out my own sexuality so I don’t know if I’d be comfortable dating a MtF unless they had surgery or were infertile. But then again my sexual interest is weird asf anyway But I’m only talking about specifically transphobic people and or people who think everything is black and white.

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Anonymous OP 14h

Thats true it’s a lot more complex than many may think

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