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Better explanation: Imagine a woman lies that she doesn’t have any sti or std and you have sex with her, then you find out she has HIV which you now have… forever. She lied because you prob would’ve said no if you were informed, that’s coercive rape!
For the men that don’t think coercion is rape. How would you feel if a woman promised to you that if you paid for the first three dates at expensive restaurant that she’d be your girlfriend. Then after date 3 she ghosts you?
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Anonymous 21h

If a doctor lied and said a surgery was risk free, you agree to the surgery, doctor lied so they could make money off of you, then during surgery there are serious complications and you can no longer walk. Would you still say that it’s your fault for not looking into it more? You don’t always have the resources available to find out more, especially when it’s a person lying about information you have no way of confirming.

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Anonymous 21h

Def a better analogy, but still Not really coercive. I’d call her a liar but ultimately I chose to sleep with her. I didn’t do my due diligence of checking her Chart. I can’t blame her for that, but I can be mad that she lied.

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Anonymous 19h

You expect people to believe what they’re told is a lie because you lie, and you manipulate so in your perspective, it should be obvious that you shouldn’t trust people. And political views aren’t easily verifiable overtime. People can lie about who they are for years.

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Anonymous 21h

That’s horrible

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Anonymous 21h

All of the scenarios are awful people

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Anonymous 21h

I’m sorry this happened to you

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 21h

You chose to sleep with (woman with no HIV) you actually slept with (woman with HIV) do you see how those are two different choices and you only consented to one???You can ABSOLUTELY be upset with someone for lying and manipulating you to get what they want, especially when it HARMS you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Yea but just cuz im mad doesnt mean shes a rapist lol. This is where a lot of yall get confused. I consented to sleeping with her. That’s the end of it. All this hiv no hiv shit doesn’t matter because ultimately I did consent. She didn’t make me do anything, I was never at risk if I decided not To. If you’re mad u got played then say that, but to call someone a rapist when there’s actual rapists out here? Wild.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 21h

No you didn’t consent because you wouldn’t have consented if you knew you were going to get HIV!!! Explaining consent to men is hell 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 21h

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

You’re an idiot who doesn’t understand consent please never breed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

U can’t change consent after the fact just because you feel a type of way about the person. Regardless of how you feel about them being immoral and lying about their status, it’s still not coercion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

I have 6 abortions under my belt trust I’m trying my hardest

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Anonymous 20h

I think you’re thinking that person is me, and that’s not what I said. I definitely agree that it is unethical, but we already established that in my first comment where I said it is fucked up that she lied. I just don’t think it’s rape or any variation of that.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

consent was NEVER GIVEN because they gave it to a false narrative that you intentionally manipulated, even if you don’t understand that is coercive rape, do you see how it is extremely unethical????

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Yea obviously it’s unethical

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

Just get a vasectomy you dumbass

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

I don’t consent

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

You understand it’s unethical and you still do it?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Well that isn’t unethical to the degree of lying about an STI. If someone can spout a BS political rhetoric and you think that person is worthwhile to crack then afterwards u find out they’re not the same political alignment that you thought, that’s definitely on you. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that . U should choose better or have better parameters for who u hu with.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

You don’t see how it’s unethical to lie about political views to get sex from a woman who would never sleep with you otherwise????? You are taking away her choice so that you can get something? You are a horrible person and the fact that you can’t recognize it, is really sad ☹️

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

You should. Dead beat.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

If the only reason you’re willing to fuck someone is cuz of their political alignment you got bigger issues to worry about. If the ONLY Thing you’re fucking someone on is cuz they’re also a liberal then LMAO and then you’re mad ppl lie about it?? That’s dumb as hell twin

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

How am I a dead beat

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

Found the pedophile supporter ^

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

Depends on which one you talking bout

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

You literally just said you have 6 abortions under your belt you pile of shit you’re subjecting women to abortions rather than taking actual responsibility and getting a vasectomy. If you’re gonna fuck and don’t want a kid get the snip

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

Wait what if they told me they were on birth control, wouldn’t that make them 🍇ist’ and me a victim? You should be on my side

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

who GAF why people chose their sexual partners??? It’s their choice. And it’s not as simple as political alignment, people view political alignment equivalent to moral alignment, so yeah people don’t want to have sex with people they think are moral degenerates.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

If you got fooled 6 times you’re an idiot. And NEED to get a vasectomy. Don’t pass those genes on they’re defective

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Wait so if someone is a moral degenerate but you don’t know they are, and you find out after u cracked, did they coerce you? Cuz surely u wouldn’t have consented otherwise right ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

Wait so if 6 guys lie to a woman and say they’re liberal to crack, is she a fool? Even tho she was coerced ?

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 20h

Yes that is coercion, it makes you a victim. Just because you are a victim doesn’t mean that your argument excusing rape is correct.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Okay so can u downvote their comments like you’re doing to mine cuz they’re basically victim blaming me For the abortions as if I was supposed to know when there was no way i could have known and didnt have the resources to know . I was taken advantage of :(

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Don’t argue with 3 he is trying to attack you instead of having an actual argument 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Ironic that you see yourself (rightfully so) as a victim and then turn around and say it’s not coercion when men do it to women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

It’s really ironic Because I’m obviously lying. I’m not a victim if a girl tells me she’s on birth control and I get her pregnant. That’s my fault for being a dumbass and trusting someone without any actual proof 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Man it really just isn’t clicking for you huh?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

The whole point of my post is that someone is a fool if their whole basis for hooking up with someone is something that can easily be faked and lied upon. They are not a victim of coercion they are a victim of naïveté. The analogies don’t make sense cuz those are easily verifiable. Political affiliation is also verifiable by just getting to know someone. My post getting such traction just goes to show how easy it is to do this and get “needs” met. Just be more careful

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Everyone is mad at me cause they feel deep down I am speaking truth. If you could take ur feelings out of it, what I said wasn’t wrong in itself. It’s just true and that hurts to hear that someone could lie about ur precious moral beliefs. Shits all cap bro . Everyone is virtue signaling and everyone wants to seem better than they are all for one reason . TO CRACK!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You’re projecting your immoral actions and your beliefs about consent onto everyone else. Nobody thinks that you’re telling the truth deep down. You can’t accept that you’re actually a rapist and a rapist apologist.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Having morals and integrity in said morals is “virtue signaling” to this halfwit. Hypocrites always use this term when they realize they are being hypocrites to escape actually self assessing themselves on a deeper level.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I dont care if u think thats what i am lol u guys calll me names on here all day shit got nun to do with me 🤷🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

He probably thinks he’s one of the good guys 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I don’t think that at all, I’m just a regular person 🤓

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

If you don’t know what virtue signaling is then you can just say that champ 🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Oh yeah it’s always the people who think “virtue signaling” is an insult when in reality they’ve never had any virtue to begin with. They’ll change their morals and values like a chameleon to fit the environment they are in. I used to have friends like this.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

I’m not calling you a name you’re definitionally a rapist. You think that coerced rape is acceptable and you participate in it.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

A regular person? But it’s not all men right?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Idk who you think you’re talking to but u seem to be projecting a lot of proposed ideals on to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

That’s true I do be doing that occasionally, it’s a highly effective strategy

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

A term created in 2015 by a British conservative journalist to make him feel better about disagreeing with his own shit morals.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Funny that you have to use highly effective strategies to manipulate women into having sex with you. That says something about how undesirable you are in your true form

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I don’t have to, it’s just easy and fun. I’m sure we all don’t like fast food 24/7 but if it’s around imma take it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Right right, bros saying everything but what it actually means

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You agreed that it’s morally unethical and you’re saying you don’t have to do it to get women have sex with you, so you’re choosing to do something highly unethical for no reason ????

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

It’s a bullshit term made by a multimillionaire to make idiots like you feel better about being called out for your lack of integrity in what you believe in.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You dumbass red pilled little pedophile defender.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

A lot of buzz words there pal you got me described really well

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Hey man, I’m just following your logic. You said you’re a regular guy, so regular guys think coerced rape is acceptable, Therefore, it is “all men”

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Shoe fits no wonder so many people block your stupid ass

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Yea fuck it is all men 🤷🏻 that doesn’t bother me at all I’m still gonna get what I want outta life

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Are you finally gonna join them 😍 plz do

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Yeah because hook ups with women who would never sleep with the real you is soooo fulfilling.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Yea basically , but the reason is i wanna craxk , and most women have a lot More real actual standards. If this persons only standard is I gotta say im conservative or voted for trump then yea I agree, whatever gets me in bed 🤷🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

They are for this little bitch of a human beestboy is literally hated by hundreds of people on here I’ve never seen negative posts about a particular user more than this little douche bag.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You should actually end it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I dont look to women for fulfillment, I have real life endeavors , friendships, spirituality and achievement that can do all that. Hooking up with women is just a cherry on top but def not what life is about

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

What does that mean exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Ur so moved by me 😍

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Anonymous 19h

Nah can you spell it out I’m so silly I cant think of what u could mean 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Just because you deem a standard “unreasonable”, it doesn’t mean that it’s not valid for that person and you can just manipulate them to get around it

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Awww he’s trying to report me 🫵😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Yes it does

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You know exactly what I meant. And you should.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Why would I do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Should what ?

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

End. It.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

This discussion ?

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

If people knew who you actually were, the stuff you say, think, and believe, do you think that you would have any of that still?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

What the fuck stop

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I am the exact same way I am on here as I am in real life lol so yeah I do think I’d have all of that and more 😁

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

No don’t say stop now! This is the mindset of people that think like you tend to harbor! This is the space yall create when you go so far one direction you end up coming back around the other way

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

No wonder you have no capabilities of morality you actually think you’re superior 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Which is why he should end it. Nothing would be lost

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I never said that , u do a lot of projection for no reason 😭 ur the one who was calling me a million different things earlier

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You actually think I’d believe that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

3 wtf is wrong with you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

What he should end being a massive piece of shit of a human. (☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)☞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I mean you’re so easily trusting right, because you’re sooo trustworthy right? But yeah man, I’ve been outspoken like this all My life and u guys r just not used to it 🤷🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You’d literally lie about who you are for pussy. You’re so immensely pathetic

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

I mean have u ever had pussy ? It’s just that good

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Plenty and I never had to lie about myself to get it you fucking loser

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

You never had as much as I have 🤷🏻 you not really like that I can tell

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Men are constantly rambling about nonsense and behaving in morally degenerate ways, so I actually am REALLY used to it.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

I lowkey feel bad for you because you clearly don’t understand how amazing sex can be you just think you shove your dick in the woman and then that’s it 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Why are you bragging about tricking “lots” of women having sex with you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Here we go with more projections, babe you need to get laid it seems

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You’re about as good a judge of character as you are a specimen of one. I “cracked” two girls at the same time last night and I’m being called back for seconds tomorrow. All of your pussy is pointless if you had to lie to get it you absolute bitch.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I never said that

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Do you even understand what you’re saying that’s not what projecting means

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

You made this claim that I have bad sex. I have great sex but you think I do cuz you’re PROJECTING 🤓

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Women never sleep with the real you and you’ve admitted to tricking women into sleeping with you and now you’re saying lots of women have slept with you so I’m just concluding that you’ve tricked all of them 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

All of your sex is a lie to yourself and the unfortunate person who bedded you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Bro had his first threesome 😍😍😍 congrats bud. Did u guys exchange chart information or are you gonna call them a 🍇ist if you find out u have HIV tmm 😍😍😍

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

That’s fine , sex is still sex

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Hahaha you think that was my first threesome oh child you have no idea who you are talking to. Yes we did exchange sharts I’ve been doing this for a long time and never caught shit and I actually took responsibility and got a vasectomy unlike your stupid ass

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

That’s a lot of leaps in judgement you know that right? A lot of assumptions

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

How old are you vasectomy man? “I’ve had lots of threesomes for a long time hahaha” righttt

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

Literally no assumptions made you ADMITTED that women wouldnt sleep with you if they knew the real you and you also ADMITTED that you manipulate women to get sex

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

You first ya little runt

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