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Confessions 16h
why do men think there’s this elite “top 15-20%” like… yes the average woman probably only finds 1 or 2 out of 10 men physically attractive but its not always the same 2/10
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Anonymous 16h

like my friends and i are all picky when it comes to guys we find attractive. but our taste does not overlap AT ALL.

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Anonymous 15h

There is such thing as conventionally attractive men, just as women, but I think as a dude the 15-20% they’re referring to are just the dudes constantly shooting their shot and are conventionally attractive. Ugly to average looking dudes can still get in the 20-40% threshold by doing the same thing.

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Anonymous 13h

Yes it is

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Anonymous 9h

Also it’s so easily disproven by simply looking around you. 60-80% of men get married in their lifetimes. Men who are not conventionally attractive AT ALL find women who want to date and marry them. Usually men who want to get married and don’t have other issues preventing them from finding a woman willing to date them. The whole “I’m mad at women for never picking me cause I’m not a ‘chad’ and I’m not going to work on myself at all cause it’s their fault I’m lonely” attitude surely doesn’t help

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

my best friend thinks the guys i like are ugly and i think the guys she likes are ugly. women are not a hive mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

I, on the other hand, am anxious about approaching and don’t. Therefore I get no girls.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

are u really gonna tell me who i find attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

the reason you’re single is because you beg women to hate you and beg them to think you’re ugly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Tf

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

it’s true. you won’t believe anyone until they say what you already believe. which is that you’re the underdog because you’re not as attractive as your peers

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

I have no idea how you extrapolated that from what I said, but goddamn that was nonsense

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