I hate that when someone gets SAd, without listening to what even happened, people will look for reasons to blame the victim. They will assume that they just regretted it, that somehow they "made" it happen, or that they are simply lying.
Its disgusting.
Yeah it’s crazy how much SA is downplayed & not taken seriously. It’s such a complex & traumatic thing to experience. Especially when it’s people closest to you that doubt you