Anonymous #1 5w

It’s just so hard to blind hope :( I like my friends but they aren’t friends I love. I just ugh I want to feel loved man and I try to hard to be loved by my friends and idk why I don’t feel it

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Anonymous OP 5w

how often do you hang out with them?

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Anonymous #1 5w

Once a week. For my close friends, once a month or so

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Anonymous OP 5w

that’s crazy, if you’re a guy you need to just start seeing them more, that’s why your life feels so hopeless and if you’re a girl then you just need to tell them how you feel and that you’re struggling here

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Anonymous #1 5w

I’m a guy and my friends are girls

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Anonymous OP 5w

oh so why not any guy friends?

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Anonymous #1 5w

Idk I just don’t mesh well with most guys 🤷‍♂️get very bored talking to them

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Anonymous OP 5w

hm idk then just go out to eat with them more or get a girlfriend, companionship can help out a lot

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yea I try it’s just schedules are so busy :( I would love a GF but I am super picky and also idk if I’m healthy enough

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Anonymous OP 5w

everyone like a lot of different things, sometimes it’s not about what you look like or how healthy you are or how much money you make, sometimes girls just like you for you

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Anonymous #1 5w

I guess I just don’t wanna hurt them with my mental health. And also I am picky I feel only a few girls in the last year I shot my shot and actually liked

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Anonymous OP 5w

sometimes it’s not even about the girl, people change over time and your brain dos too ok what it wants and that’s normal but staying at home or at work all the time is only going to make your brain depreciate more. trust me i’ve been there

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Anonymous #1 5w

True. I’m in clubs and stuff and try to meet people. I guess just not a lot of people make me feel like romantic attraction

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Anonymous OP 5w

could just be the mental health, best advice i ever got and live by: just fake it until you make it

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