Confessions on Sidechat | I am kinda uncomfortable with the fact that my bf wants his parents to reconcile their marriage. He’s very religious and doesn’t believe in divorce, but his dad abused his mom and she has an OP against him. Idk it’s prob not my place but it just feels ew?

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Confessions 1d

I am kinda uncomfortable with the fact that my bf wants his parents to reconcile their marriage. He’s very religious and doesn’t believe in divorce, but his dad abused his mom and she has an OP against him. Idk it’s prob not my place but it just feels ew?

Anonymous 1d

It’s very ew wth😭

Anonymous 1d

It’s not my place to judge but I think you should leave your bf

Anonymous 1d

OP in this context being an Order of Protection (restraining order basically)

Anonymous 17h

This makes me think he’ll treat you badly then expect you to reconcile

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Anonymous 23h

He needs to like learn that this is not okay

Anonymous

#1 1d

Okay so I’m not crazy?? Bc like I do NOT understand how he wants that and he’s upset with his mom for separating and not trying to communicate with his dad and I’m just like wtf dude? He would say before to tell him if he’s not treating me right in marriage but what if his version of not treating me right is ABUSE??

Anonymous

#2 1d

No honestly I’ve been considering it since learning this because how can he want his mom to go back to her abuser

Anonymous

OP 1d

I mean I used to be religious but not to the point that I would expect people in a abusive relationship to stay together no matter what. Also, let’s say in the future you try to divorce him who knows how he might react