Anonymous #1 1w

Right and it’s so selfish. I’m just messed up about it because we were super intimate. And it didn’t matter to him.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Thankfully we weren’t but still hurts bc I was emotionally attached to somebody who didn’t give a shit

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Anonymous #1 1w

Do you notice before or after it’s over? Because if you know when it’s happening, how about you take accountability and realize you are choosing to stay in it, you don’t respect yourself enough to let go. They will take because you make it available. It’s why things are the way they are, people aren’t always evil, they just do what is most convenient, human nature. Not dissing, you just can’t put all the blame on them when you chose to be in it. Say no, no more

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Anonymous #3 1w

Yeah I left when I noticed it. There is not an excuse to lie and intentionally cause harm. You can’t lead people on it’s fucked up.

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Anonymous #1 1w

Sorry to hear that man, no one deserves it but it’s all in valuing yourself. I know from the same experience, I’d see a red flag and think I’m being patient, that’s cope. Every time I’m about to let go, new information would enter the conversation, fooling me into believing we were building intimacy and trust. It’s hard to say no but it’s necessary, heartbreak hurts that much more

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Anonymous #3 1w

Yeah no I left when I caught on. Sad part I knew this person for a long time

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Anonymous #1 1w

Honestly wish people went to church more, you’ll see through all the bs and stop making excuses. Any moral code we create of our own design fails.

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Anonymous #4 1w

Thank you sweets ❤️

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