Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Confessions icon
Confessions 16w
How to feel pretty and not self-conscious?
comment

3
upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 16w

This genuinely sounds dumb I know, but look at yourself every day in the mirror and just tell yourself you love yourself. Pay attention to your favorite features and appreciate them. Every day you will start believe it more and more.

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Wouldn’t ignoring/not complimenting the features I hate make me hate them even more? Won’t it feel like I’m overcompensating with stuff I like?

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Don’t overthink it. You don’t have to ignore the features you dislike. But it’s not important to pay attention to what you hate about yourself while you’re telling yourself you love yourself. It just won’t work. The whole point is to look at yourself without only seeing what you hate.

upvote 1 downvote