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Confessions 22h
Was pressured and forced into sex by ex because she couldn’t fathom a guy not being ready for or not wanting sex, and would say I wasn’t attracted to her or call me gay every time I tried to refuse. Took me forever to understand that’s rape. 🫠
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Anonymous 22h

i’m so sorry :/ relationship SA is not talked about enough. if you haven’t already seen it, there’s this video about consent using tea metaphorically. you should give it a watch!

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Anonymous 20h

I’m a trans woman for the record, that information applies for what’s below. It is not an attempt to steal the spotlight. However when I was with my ex (prior to transition), she often coerced me into sex when I was not comfortable. It took transitioning and therapy to realize that men could be victims of sexual abuse and that’s sad. I’m so sorry you went through this.

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Anonymous 22h

Ew oh my God I’m so sorry

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Anonymous 21h

I’m so so sorry that happened to you.

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Anonymous 21h

OP, I’m sorry that happened. I hope you’re in a happier and healthier place now! 🫂

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Anonymous 17h

My Ex started a campaign to convince everyone that I was gay because I didn’t want to have sex with her. She couldn’t handle the idea that a straight guy wouldn’t want her body.

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Anonymous 18h

this helped me feel seen because I was constant SAed by my ex. it is NOT talked about enough and it can feel so isolating. I am proud of you and I hope you are healing.

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Anonymous 10h

To all of the comments who are insinuating that he should be grateful: Go to hell and rot in your own piss, genuinely. It’s people like you that make the loneliness epidemic even worse. No one’s falling for your bullshit here…

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Anonymous 13h

That’s disgusting💔 I’m so sorry this happened to you. This post really raises awareness about coercive sexual assault, which is so frequent but rarely recognized. I wish you healing and safety

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Anonymous 21h

Wack

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Anonymous 21h

Damn bro sorry to hear that hope you’re doing better now

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Anonymous 17h

Similar thing happened to me my ex threatened to break up with me and said like she didn’t want to be in a relationship with someone even though she knew I wasn’t comfortable with it before and I said I would but I wasn’t very comfortable with it and I just said yes because I really liked her so she wouldn’t break up with me (she then later said that she just wanted to hookup with me which is why she pressured me and then changed her mind and wanted a real relationship with me)

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Anonymous 11h

i’m sorry op. this happened to me a lot too. realizing that it is indeed rape isn’t an easy thing to do. i hope you’re able to process and recover

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Anonymous 9h

Sorry man

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Anonymous 18h

Shoot him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Thanks 😓

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Yes! I highly recommend that video!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

We watched that video religiously in college

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Anonymous 20h

Wow, didn’t know they made bots that uncreative…

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 20h

I had a similar experience as an agender person :/ she was part of my friend group and we have friend meetups every year since high school, and it took so long for me to realize why I felt so disgusting when she looked at me during them, even years later…

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 19h

Sorry that happened to you as well. Everyone regardless of gender needs to learn about consent. Good for you for figuring yourself out at least. Hope you’re happier now :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Thank you, I appreciate it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

Thanks. I am doing better, I think :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 19h

That’s horrible. Hope you’re ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

What’s the video

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 10h

I want the video as well

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 10h

I hope you have the support you need!! 💛

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 10h

Sorry second one was meant to be replying to OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

I unironically love that video, gave me a good laugh since I’ve never thought of it that way prior to that.

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