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Was pressured and forced into sex by ex because she couldn’t fathom a guy not being ready for or not wanting sex, and would say I wasn’t attracted to her or call me gay every time I tried to refuse. Took me forever to understand that’s rape. 🫠
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Anonymous 7w

i’m so sorry :/ relationship SA is not talked about enough. if you haven’t already seen it, there’s this video about consent using tea metaphorically. you should give it a watch!

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Anonymous 7w

I’m a trans woman for the record, that information applies for what’s below. It is not an attempt to steal the spotlight. However when I was with my ex (prior to transition), she often coerced me into sex when I was not comfortable. It took transitioning and therapy to realize that men could be victims of sexual abuse and that’s sad. I’m so sorry you went through this.

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Anonymous 7w

OP, I’m sorry that happened. I hope you’re in a happier and healthier place now! 🫂

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Anonymous 7w

My Ex started a campaign to convince everyone that I was gay because I didn’t want to have sex with her. She couldn’t handle the idea that a straight guy wouldn’t want her body.

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Anonymous 7w

That’s disgusting💔 I’m so sorry this happened to you. This post really raises awareness about coercive sexual assault, which is so frequent but rarely recognized. I wish you healing and safety

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Anonymous 7w

To all of the comments who are insinuating that he should be grateful: Go to hell and rot in your own piss, genuinely. It’s people like you that make the loneliness epidemic even worse. No one’s falling for your bullshit here…

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Anonymous 7w

this helped me feel seen because I was constant SAed by my ex. it is NOT talked about enough and it can feel so isolating. I am proud of you and I hope you are healing.

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Anonymous 7w

i’m sorry op. this happened to me a lot too. realizing that it is indeed rape isn’t an easy thing to do. i hope you’re able to process and recover

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Anonymous 7w

Wack

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Anonymous 7w

Damn bro sorry to hear that hope you’re doing better now

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Anonymous 7w

Similar thing happened to me my ex threatened to break up with me and said like she didn’t want to be in a relationship with someone even though she knew I wasn’t comfortable with it before and I said I would but I wasn’t very comfortable with it and I just said yes because I really liked her so she wouldn’t break up with me (she then later said that she just wanted to hookup with me which is why she pressured me and then changed her mind and wanted a real relationship with me)

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Anonymous 7w

Sorry man

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Anonymous 7w

I’m so sorry that happened to you! I hope that you’ve healed and stepped into a new light in your life!

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Anonymous 7w

Shoot him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Yes! I highly recommend that video!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

We watched that video religiously in college

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Anonymous 7w

Wow, didn’t know they made bots that uncreative…

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

I had a similar experience as an agender person :/ she was part of my friend group and we have friend meetups every year since high school, and it took so long for me to realize why I felt so disgusting when she looked at me during them, even years later…

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

Sorry that happened to you as well. Everyone regardless of gender needs to learn about consent. Good for you for figuring yourself out at least. Hope you’re happier now :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Thanks. I am doing better, I think :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 7w

That’s horrible. Hope you’re ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

What’s the video

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 7w

I want the video as well

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 7w

I hope you have the support you need!! 💛

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 7w

Sorry second one was meant to be replying to OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I unironically love that video, gave me a good laugh since I’ve never thought of it that way prior to that.

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